There's nothing lower in the congregation than a woman married to a "worldly" man - at least the single women are up for grabs. Well, let me qualify that - if you're old and single and not so good looking, you're less than dirt as well.
This is very true. They love to treat my mom like crap because my dad is "worldly". They don't mind being nice when they need favors, though, like a good lunch after a long, hard day in service.