It just blows my mind. I am an adult, and I can't go out without getting the third degree. I can't have a phone/internet conversation without being interrogated and/or watched. Anywhere else this type of behavior would be invasion of privacy, but because I'm a Dub, it's "keeping an eye on the flock."
This IS an invasion of privacy. It is up to you to protect yourself. What the society is doing here is potentially dangerous as regards the mental health of it's members. This constant need to know every minute detail of your life can lead to stress induced anxiety, panic attacks and even paranoia. The last thing you need is to develop is a psychotic illness. (This happened to me) Your life is yours and no-one else's. Get out of this mind controlling cult, it's causing you distress. I hope you can do this. Remember, you have an outlet here to let off steam. Just my 2 pennies. Good luck with protecting your privacy.