The problem I have with this subject is the fact that preachers don't spend much time ostracizing/downgrading people who are in a 'sinful' heterosexual relationship. But they do spend a lot of time damning gays to hell.
I had an ex-boyfriend that I went to church with every Sunday, and then afterwards we would 'get busy'; he refused to marry me or make any committment to me and yet every chance he could he was damning gays to hell for immorality--to me he was one huge HYPOCRITE!