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  I think I might try to date a JW girl

  by tsunami_rid3r in

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  theres a new girl and her brothers down here from kansas until may.

  she sounds fun, from what i've met at the gathering last night.

  shes looking for a guy.

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  She's hot and could be loyal.
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  I think I might try to date a JW girl

  by tsunami_rid3r in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  theres a new girl and her brothers down here from kansas until may.

  she sounds fun, from what i've met at the gathering last night.

  shes looking for a guy.

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  No, I'm the dude going to prom with a date and going to college. But I still have to attend meetings just to keep the parents happy and supporting me, and to keep the elders out of our damn business. lol.
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  I think I might try to date a JW girl

  by tsunami_rid3r in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  theres a new girl and her brothers down here from kansas until may.

  she sounds fun, from what i've met at the gathering last night.

  shes looking for a guy.

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  Right thats what I thought. I only talked with him a little at last nights gathering and hung out with his sister a little more. Hope that works out.
  
  EDIT: You know what, I've never had this kind of situation. If I do talk to her brother or he talks to me, should I mention at all that I want to hook up with his sister. He did mention to me last night, that the only reason they had the gathering was for her to look for boys.
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  I think I might try to date a JW girl

  by tsunami_rid3r in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  theres a new girl and her brothers down here from kansas until may.

  she sounds fun, from what i've met at the gathering last night.

  shes looking for a guy.

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  Should I make friends with her brother or what?
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  I think I might try to date a JW girl

  by tsunami_rid3r in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  theres a new girl and her brothers down here from kansas until may.

  she sounds fun, from what i've met at the gathering last night.

  shes looking for a guy.

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  Theres a new girl and her brothers down here from Kansas until May. She sounds fun, from what I've met at the gathering last night. Shes looking for a guy. lol.
  
  And my prom date won't go farther than friends with me, which sucks because I'd like a relationship for some reason I don't know.
  
  Well if I ask to do something with her over the weekend, like take her to the mall, she might tell her aunt and we could have a chaperone. Or I could hang out with her brother to get closer to her, which just seems wrong to me.
  
  How the heck should I approach this?
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  Name some silly things you couldn't do as a witness

  by sweet tee in

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  put your hand on your hips.

  switch when you walk.

  do popular dances where you shake yo money maker.

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  Not allowed to like girls
  
  Can't say the word bulletin board.
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  Were You Always Afraid To Do Something Wrong As A Witness?

  by minimus in

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  jws are always being reminded that you "could" stumble someone.

  you had to continuously question yourself about possibly offending another (weak) christian's conscience.....were you always worried that you were going to get into trouble because you might've screwed up somehow??.

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  Yes, I was always in constant fear.
  
  
  It caused me great depression.
  
  
  It caused me loneliness because I was different from the rest.
  
  
  From the Witnesses and from the Worldly.
  
  
  There was a point in my life, the start of my senior year in high school, where I just didn't give a damn anymore.
  
  
  A girl that I falled for, helped me escape.
  
  
  Nazi parents that disallowed me my natural rights as a human being.
  
  
  A right to a social life.
  
  
  I had a truck, my freedom, and I was starting school, happy to see my classmates again, and ready to start something new. They were surprised to see me and my total makeover. I no longer dressed in the plain clothes that Jehovah's Witnesses were constricted to; I dressed sexy with grown out hair.
  
  It was at the point of Homecoming where I really came out. I wanted to go with my friends, and my parents wouldn't let me because I was a Jehovah Witness. I told them I wasn't. It was at that point the hatred began and my point was proven that this religion destroys families.
  
  
  Still, I hid away in fear trying to party and do what I wanted to, what I should've done throughout my life.
  
  
  I came to the meetings with slight hangovers. The elders noticed a change with my grooming, and so did my friends who were sons of the elders. But they followed along my worldly ways at my house, watching porn, drinking alcohol, watching R movies at my house, and talking dirty at the pool. We had a rock band, and it was going good. You could say I stumbled them. I even told one of my real conservative friends how boring an elder would be. I said to him "you should live your life out to the fullest and have many girls, not just be obsessed with one and get married with her and have babies and then become some lame elder."
  
  
  Later on, I found an elder calling my parent's, saying it was urgent. My dad, really pissed at me wanted to know whats up. I said I don't really know. The elder, the father of the conservative kid, showed up and wanted to talk to my parents privately. I was scared but kept my cool consulting this site for advice, and I conjureded something out. Apparently one of or a few of my friends in my group ratted me out to their fathers. I tell the elder "here's the deal, all the things I told them, was a joke. A call for attention. They left me out from a lot of things. And your son keeps calling Ryan and me gay because we hung out together a lot. So I told him I was going out for a date, which was just a joke."
  
  
  He and my parents agreed to what I said and he said he will talk to his son and correct him.
  
  
  Ryan another conservative bull shitter, lied to his parents about drinking, then called me up just to tell me I need to "Make the truth my own". Whatever, to this day, when I do microphones, I look at his Watchtower and its blank.
  
  
  And so none of them went to Cancun with me because they pussied out.
  At one time, we all agreed that my beliefs would not separate our friendship. Another point proven, this religion destroys friendships.
  
  
  I still do not know to this day, if their parents got to them or if it was their change of heart.
  
  
  As for me, I have been blessed with great friends, friends of all economic, social, religious backgrounds. I party, I go to concerts, I go on dates, I just hang out and chill, and I'm going to my prom with a beautiful date. And I have a group to hang out with that displays true friendship. Most of all I'm going to college.
  
  I also try to read God's Word in God's house, but that's hard and impossible sometimes since my mom makes me pay attention to the parts.
  
  
  Stay strong, and man you will fear no more.
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  Need advice

  by tsunami_rid3r in

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  17, getting ready to go to college, and i want out of this religion.

  i'm also going to prom with a girl who just wants to be friends or something.

  but i'd really like a relationship b/c i never really had one.

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  I will try your advice, but I'll have some fun with her too.
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  Need advice

  by tsunami_rid3r in

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  17, getting ready to go to college, and i want out of this religion.

  i'm also going to prom with a girl who just wants to be friends or something.

  but i'd really like a relationship b/c i never really had one.

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  Shes real hot and she was really nice tonight. And she'll only be around until May 11. Maybe I could have just a little fun? I could possibly turn her away. lol. I doubt that. Dude yeah I'm going into college, but I'm kinda bummed out that my prom date couldn't see herself dating me. I need a girl to hang out with.
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  Need advice

  by tsunami_rid3r in

  1. jw
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  17, getting ready to go to college, and i want out of this religion.

  i'm also going to prom with a girl who just wants to be friends or something.

  but i'd really like a relationship b/c i never really had one.

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  17, getting ready to go to college, and I want out of this religion. I'm also going to prom with a girl who just wants to be friends or something. But I'd really like a relationship b/c I never really had one. So tonight my parents were telling me to go to this church gathering because these people were visiting. Well I made friends with their son and daughter, and I wouldn't mind starting something with the girl, she'll be here 'till May 11. They go to my book study too. She won't be doing really anything while shes here.
  
  Oh yea and I learned from her brother that her mom had the get together so her daughter could look for boys.
  
  So like should I touch this? And I made friends with her brother, how can I get around this without making it look bad?