i have two cats two fish and two ginea pigs!
seeing as i lost all my friends thought id fill my life with animals!!
wish i hadnt bothered sometimes apart from my cats(harvey and jemima) i love them loads.
mine is a lab/boxer mix.
she is about 8 months now and thinks she is a lap dog!
she is as graceful as a cat, and can be on my lap in about a second with no notice.
i have two cats two fish and two ginea pigs!
seeing as i lost all my friends thought id fill my life with animals!!
wish i hadnt bothered sometimes apart from my cats(harvey and jemima) i love them loads.
my friend has been struggling in the 'truth' for a while, she was never really a model jw and since ive been dfed and her little sister was abused shes wanted to leave but cant seem to find the way to do it.
so she rung me today and told me she is meeting with the elders (two i think) as she has told them she has questions and wants answers.. i think her overall hope is that they dont answer her questions and she finds the strength to leave!
(she says sometimes shed like them to df her but i think thats just coz she wants to go so much!.
thanks i told her alittle of what u said today and she said she may just concerntrate on one issue but if they cant answer anything shell use it as her excuse to stop going completly to the meetings!
im interested tho whats that thing about hitler??
my friend has been struggling in the 'truth' for a while, she was never really a model jw and since ive been dfed and her little sister was abused shes wanted to leave but cant seem to find the way to do it.
so she rung me today and told me she is meeting with the elders (two i think) as she has told them she has questions and wants answers.. i think her overall hope is that they dont answer her questions and she finds the strength to leave!
(she says sometimes shed like them to df her but i think thats just coz she wants to go so much!.
thanks again im seeing her tomorrow afternoon so anything else u know that will be good for her to say will be appreciated
shes still not sure which way to go
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hi,.
i need alittle help finding a wt article, i believe it's a 1969 article about education and the jist of it about how you shouldn't go to school cause by the time you're done armageddon will have already come, something to that effect.
a newme thats a really sad story glad u found this website i got dfed 6 months ago and its helping me.
that wt article is so good my parents are struggling so bad money wise because they havent prepared at all for their future they are mid 60s and still working so hard. and yet they still say the society never said any dates!!
any more articles like that one?
my friend has been struggling in the 'truth' for a while, she was never really a model jw and since ive been dfed and her little sister was abused shes wanted to leave but cant seem to find the way to do it.
so she rung me today and told me she is meeting with the elders (two i think) as she has told them she has questions and wants answers.. i think her overall hope is that they dont answer her questions and she finds the strength to leave!
(she says sometimes shed like them to df her but i think thats just coz she wants to go so much!.
just readx more of your threads thanks i think it will help her alot
i dont want to encourage her to get dfed coz for me it has caused my family so much pain! but she only has her dad and husband in it and alot of supportive non jw family the thing isto answer your threads (cant remember who said what) but yes she prob should put a daing letter in if thats how she feels but i think she at least wants to look like shes tried,
im glad someone put about doubting the f and d slave i thin k thats the best thing she can do, do u think if she went with loads of questions it would not be good? i was going to arm her with a few but like someone said should she just stickj to one but REALLY stick to it?
keep your comments coming it will help her alot x
the following is the first 15 questions that i handed over to the elder that was over at my house on the 24th of august.i will post part b as soon as i can.feel free to comment on any question.. where does the bible make such statements:.
1.that god has an "organization" on earth and uses a governing body to direct it?.
2.that the "faithful and discreet slave"is a "class" composed of only certain christians and that it operates through a governing body?.
thanks so much for posting that i dont know if youve seen my recent thread on friends but my friend is going to the elders with her doubts on sunday she actually wants them to maybe df her (long story) but i dont know if they will id love to hear what they said to u what happened?
my friend has been struggling in the 'truth' for a while, she was never really a model jw and since ive been dfed and her little sister was abused shes wanted to leave but cant seem to find the way to do it.
so she rung me today and told me she is meeting with the elders (two i think) as she has told them she has questions and wants answers.. i think her overall hope is that they dont answer her questions and she finds the strength to leave!
(she says sometimes shed like them to df her but i think thats just coz she wants to go so much!.
i know they would not listen to her she doesnt want them to, i know its a weird situation but shes said for ages she has questions and now they want to talk to her its like her way out (maybe)
i thought the 607 thing etc would seal her fate (like she wants) but maybe not i dont know
my friend has been struggling in the 'truth' for a while, she was never really a model jw and since ive been dfed and her little sister was abused shes wanted to leave but cant seem to find the way to do it.
so she rung me today and told me she is meeting with the elders (two i think) as she has told them she has questions and wants answers.. i think her overall hope is that they dont answer her questions and she finds the strength to leave!
(she says sometimes shed like them to df her but i think thats just coz she wants to go so much!.
thanks ballistic nice to hear from u,
jaffa i cant pm its not working properly but my email is [email protected] i would really appreciate u giving me some things to tell her.
i thought if she wanted to get dfed she should concerntrate on the un 607 etc but they would prob know its come from me (and im not sure how i feel about that!) but i want to help her the best way i can she defo doesnt want to be talked round not sure of the best way to go.
my friend has been struggling in the 'truth' for a while, she was never really a model jw and since ive been dfed and her little sister was abused shes wanted to leave but cant seem to find the way to do it.
so she rung me today and told me she is meeting with the elders (two i think) as she has told them she has questions and wants answers.. i think her overall hope is that they dont answer her questions and she finds the strength to leave!
(she says sometimes shed like them to df her but i think thats just coz she wants to go so much!.
thanks everyone thats what i told her.
thing is she seems to want to be dfed as she thinks she will never leave otherwise! i dont think they will df her i think they may try and answer her questions (am i being stupid?) but she was just gonna say things like 'i dont agree with my friend being dfed or my sister being abused' etc
and i think she needs to ask geniune questions about the beliefs if she wants to be dfed am i right?
my friend has been struggling in the 'truth' for a while, she was never really a model jw and since ive been dfed and her little sister was abused shes wanted to leave but cant seem to find the way to do it.
so she rung me today and told me she is meeting with the elders (two i think) as she has told them she has questions and wants answers.. i think her overall hope is that they dont answer her questions and she finds the strength to leave!
(she says sometimes shed like them to df her but i think thats just coz she wants to go so much!.
my friend has been struggling in the 'truth' for a while, she was never really a model jw and since ive been dfed and her little sister was abused shes wanted to leave but cant seem to find the way to do it.
so she rung me today and told me she is meeting with the elders (two i think) as she has told them she has questions and wants answers.
i think her overall hope is that they dont answer her questions and she finds the strength to leave! (she says sometimes shed like them to df her but i think thats just coz she wants to go so much!
anyway she hasnt axcess to a computer but i would love to show her your comments show her she is right to have doubts, but does anyone have any advice on taking their doubts to the elders (will she get dfed for that) and is there any really GOOD things she can (innocently) say to really tie them in knots??
please help x