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  Fun with Shunners ;)

  by damselfly in

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  i used to try and avoid running into jw's after i was first d/f, but the past few years i have taken a different spin on it.

  at my old job as a cashier if i was the only cash open then they had no choice but to have me wait on them.

  the apprehension on their faces as they approaached was hysterical.

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  crazyblondeb

  Ooh damselfly,

  That sounds like fun. May have to try some of your ideas!! When I worked at the local hospital, they'd always give me JW patients. Several complained and tried to have a different nurse. But my supervisor knew what kind of crap they pulled and usually told them they didn't have a choice. I'd have to do all their admission paperwork--all the good details. Some didn't care, others I thought would stroke out right there.

  On a couple of occasions my friends and I would go barhopping about 30 miles from where we lived. It was a big college town. A couple times several JW couples would end up in the same bar. I always had to have drinks sent over!!! I think they thought I had poisoned them!!
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  Elder Condemned Me to Death

  by Grace in

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  2. friends

  i have been thinking about this because of another post where the question asks have any of us ever been blackmailed to stay in the watchtower organization.. no, i won't say i was blackmailed; however, after i wrote my note of disassociation, the congregation overseer wanted to visit me in my home with two other elders.

  i repeatedly said no, that i would not allow them to chastise me in my own home.

  therefore, all of my conversations were over the phone with the overseer.

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  I was told that both times I was DF'd by a short, bald, pompous elder, and then by my parents. They even tried that crap after I had my daughter. "How does it feel to know she's going to die because of you?!" All I could do was laugh in their faces. I agree with crumpet, I'd rather LIVE a life seperate from them vs. being miserable with them!!

  After my last df'ing, another "bad association" and I taped the record "Short People" to his front door!!!
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  We're all gonna die....

  by PopeOfEruke in

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  every last one of us ........... pope

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  crazyblondeb

  Thank god someone clarified that!!

  But I plan on being around to make some JW's life more miserable from time to time, or I ain't doing something right!!!

  shelley
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  Guilt, the gift that keeps on giving

  by sass_my_frass in

  1. social
  2. family

  darling mother asks me often 'so you're definitely going to all the meetings?

  and you're not doing this just to get your family back, right?

  you actually want to be a witness?

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  I think most of us have those "long life rail passes" when it comes to guilt. I just got to a space where when my mom tries the guilt thing, I get angry at her. Works for me!!
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  Hi.. I'm also new and wanted some opinion...

  by Lynne Y in

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  2. experiences

  hi, i'm lynne.. i was wondering about religion for months and found this website.. i was hoping to get some feedbacks... almost everyone in my mom's family is a witness, and i was born and raised as a witness.

  and yet, i never really wanted to get baptized, maybe because my father left the truth(?

  although i don't like the expression, the truth, i don't know what else to say.. heh..).

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  I feel your pain!!! Before I found these sites, I was lost! You will find sooo much love and support here. Each person has to find their own belief system. It may come quickly, or it may take a long time. I quit going because my stepdad, a MS, was molesting me. Plus EVERY time I did something not quite right, there was always an elder's meeting. I just got fed up and ran away from home @ 17yr.

  That was more than 20 yrs ago. Only the last few years have I found where I belong. For me, it was wicca.

  Remember, we are all here for you!!!Keep your head up!

  shelley
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  Told my nonJW brother-in-law I'm done with the JW thing

  by ithinkisee in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am slowly ramping up the wheels of apostacy and have begun telling a few people to help brace the fallout of me telling my wife.

  i have many relatives that aren't jws - both on my side and on my wife's side.

  i've already told my dad (who was never a jw - to which i am eternally grateful), and some nonjw business people that i am also friends with.. my wife's brother was never a jw.

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  My hat is off to you. Taking that first big step is the most important one!!We are all here for you!! Just think--this is the first day of the rest of YOUR life!!

  shelley
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  Great Experiences- I was serfing the net ad came across APOSTATES

  by You People Are All Idiots in

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  2. experiences

  wow, yeah i was looking fr the theocratic ministry school oral review questions and i came across an apostate site!

  the site was www.jehovahs-witness.com and was just fill of retarded apostates!

  they were not only using a domain name and header name that denotes a conection with the actual watchtower society, but where using it to blasphem the jehovah's true organization in order to help people break away.

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  Can't you feel the LOVE ????

  Thought true JWs weren't suppose to surf the net?!!! We can tell by your grammer you didn't get much of an education!! You need to give a few talks and maybe meet with the elders. They'll set you straight!!!

  And when you are ready for the "truth"--we'll be waiting with open arms!!
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  A Dream Come True!

  by HadEnuf in

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  2. friends

  my husband was on the phone with the elder who was the po at the time of the great "wedding fiasco".

  let's just say my husband initiated the conversation (i can't go into details) and just before he hung up i said something i've been wanting to say for almost 6 years!

  i yelled at the top of my lungs: (now mind you; i was only about a foot from the phone) f**k you!!!

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  yoohoooo!!!!!!

  Bet that was ALMOST as good as sex!!!!
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  Billboard rental....

  by Country Girl in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  i was thinking of renting a billboard on highway 71, which is a major thouroughfare in texas between austin and houston, that has a pic of the silent lamb with the "x" on his mouth that says:.

  "silent no more".

  <pic of the lamb>.

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  I know exactly where you are talking about!!! That would get alot of good sightings!! The company my ex works for owns some billboards in Texas. Not exactly sure of all their locations. I can't call and ask, seeing how what ended the marriage was him screwing a girl that used to work in the office. But if you want their number just to ask, PM me!!

  shelley
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  WT advice on "If Your Child is Abused"

  by undercover in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  straight from the wt website.

  to stop abuse, you must know it when you see it.

  in the numerous books on the subject, experts have listed dozens of telltale signs of abuse that parents can watch for.

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  My blood is beyond boiling after reading this. I was molested for years by my stepdad, who was a MS. On top of that, my mom knew what was happening, and did nothing to stop it. Years later he was at a JC meeting invovling one of my sisters. She asked him about it in front of the elders and he admitted to it. NOTHING was done.

  He later remarried a JW woman who had 2 small girls. I couldn't have lived with myself if something were to happen. I called the Orange County CPS and told them what he did to me. I told them I had no way of knowing what was going on now. They investigated him and they were divorced not long after that.

  They will stop at nothing to protect their own!

  shelley