You know EvilForce my elders actually used to sit and smile and say "we commend you for making an effore & appreciate your answers" That used to make me feel so sick straight away 'cos I knew a bib BUT was to follow.
There are so many times that I'd get hauled over the coals for something that I had supposedly done. A little bit about my personality - I'm a type of person that if something is funny I enjoy having a good real loud laugh, if we dance I have a blast - really enjoy life to the full. So anyway this one time a whole group of us go off for drinks, now here in S.A we get Happy Hour so like you pay 10 bucks and you drink as much as you like (usually house spirits) as long as you hold onto your glass. Now I like my Jack Daniels & so opted not to go for that - I think the whole night I had about 2 doubles. The next day at the meeting (hell I even went on fieldies before) I, along with a few other mates get pulled aside by 2 elders in full view of everyone and asked why I was drunk & disorderly (one elder was actually with us the previous night) Now things should not be handled like this - I let them know in no uncertain terms that whomever they got their facts from lied, that I wasn't going to justify them with an answer, just because I'm a little loud & know how to have fun does not mean I'm drunk, and off I walked, with my mates in tow.
Amazing how they jump to conclusions, not buying out the time to find out what happens, approaching you with an accusation instead of approaching you with love & compassion.
An interesting thing is when Moses asked God if he could see his glory, God says to him, to turn his face & walks by and the first thing that God says about himself (this is God on God now) I am Compassionate, slow to anger.......
No my friends, they do not know nor do they understand the meaning of any type of love.