I know, but it hurts me so much to see him part of this religion, he's messing up not only his life, but his wife's, his two grown up daughter's and two young son's. If it was only affecting him, I wouldn't object....
Lilycurly
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Should I get Disfellowshipped? (sorry, it's excommunicated, now)
by Lilycurly inmy mother and i have been baptised, and we both faded.
without a try from anyone, elder or other to get us back.
the thing is, my father is still in.
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For those who Believe the bible to be true............
by defd inwho is your favorite bible character and, or, account and why?
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Lilycurly
And HOW did defd's hero, Super-Samson manage to catch 300 foxes out of the blue and tie them all up with torches? I think we discussed that one before....
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What happens when
by carla inwhat happens when meetings have to be cancled due to power outages or something?
i'm not talking major things like katrina.
do they make up an extra meeting or do they just skip that one altogether?
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Lilycurly
When I was a kid, I used to pray to God that there would be a big enough snow storm to cancel the meeting, if it didn't work, we went at the Hall and I prayed for the power to go out so it could end. Sometimes it did and my little heart started beating really fast in total delight.lol
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Wedding Anniversaries
by sandy ini just heard through some ex-witnesses that it is no longer okay for witnesses to celebrate wedding anniversaries.
i was very surprised to hear this.
i am sure it has been discussed here but i cannot find anything on the matter.
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Lilycurly
LOL! That's just great, I'll tell her that!lol Their last wedding ann. was on a Friday night, we just went shopping, her and me and ate out at a restaurant while he had to cook for himself. I felt kind of bad for him, but that's just the way he makes us feels many times a year.
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Should I get Disfellowshipped? (sorry, it's excommunicated, now)
by Lilycurly inmy mother and i have been baptised, and we both faded.
without a try from anyone, elder or other to get us back.
the thing is, my father is still in.
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Lilycurly
Why not? Maybe it could make him think? Of course, I need to thin a lot too, don't want to act too fast, this is kind of a non-coming back thing.
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Should I get Disfellowshipped? (sorry, it's excommunicated, now)
by Lilycurly inmy mother and i have been baptised, and we both faded.
without a try from anyone, elder or other to get us back.
the thing is, my father is still in.
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Lilycurly
Yes...of course, I don't want to loose him. I still love him a lot. But I have a feeling that we would still talk to me, after all, like I said, he does things like watching demonic movies when most wouldn't even see Lord of the Rings! Why not talk to his own daughter. He perfectly knows that even now, I'm as good as DA or DF, but makes nothing of it...
And anyone know why he told us the word wasn't DF anymore, but excommunicated? Is that new? I thought they wanted to be different then the other christians?
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Should I get Disfellowshipped? (sorry, it's excommunicated, now)
by Lilycurly inmy mother and i have been baptised, and we both faded.
without a try from anyone, elder or other to get us back.
the thing is, my father is still in.
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Lilycurly
My mother and I have been baptised, and we both faded. Without a try from anyone, elder or other to get us back. The thing is, my father is still in. And even though he knows I go on apostate sites daily, read and talk apostate with my mom and did all kind of stuff worthy of Disfellowshipment, I am still in. It seems that he lives in his little world where I am only "inactive". That's what he considers my mother and I, inactives.
After my mother and I talked about that, she asked him why we were both considered inactive JWs when we clearly werent. And also asked him if I was to get DF, would he not talk to me. (As I dont live with them, he shouldn't, right?) He closed up and said he didn't know, he'd have to research! Research!? Isn't that a common, painful fact amongst JW that you just don't communicate with DF family? I can't beleive that my dad, who obediently reads every darn article and book wouldn't know that. I am suspecting that he just couldn't face the fact that he'd have to ignore me. We have always had a connection, he wouldn't be abble.
So my mother wondered if it would help him to see the mistake he is part of, if I got myself DF on purpose. If something truly challenging like ignoring his first born child would be the final blow for him. Something he would finally find the strenght to disagree with. Keep in mind that my father is the kinf of JW that went to see "The Exorsism of Emily Rose" a few days ago. Lets the CoC book lying on his desk where I put it without burning it and cries when he sees "The Lion King". This is the complicated kind of man we are talking about...
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Pagan? Do you keep the feast days?
by darkuncle29 indo you keep the feast days?
any of the holidays?
astrological events?.
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Lilycurly
There are some great sites on the web.
Celtic connection
Witche's Vox
WiccaWeb
I especially like Vox, because you can find pagan people from your area and contact them.
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Wedding Anniversaries
by sandy ini just heard through some ex-witnesses that it is no longer okay for witnesses to celebrate wedding anniversaries.
i was very surprised to hear this.
i am sure it has been discussed here but i cannot find anything on the matter.
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Lilycurly
My mother, who isn't a JW, decided to ban their wedding anniversaries herself. To make my father see how idiotic it is to ban every other celebration. He choose to screw everything for his family, she decided to screw to one day he is aloud.
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For those who Believe the bible to be true............
by defd inwho is your favorite bible character and, or, account and why?
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Lilycurly
I was always fascinated by Salomé. The girl who danced at the party, is that the name?...lol She must have been quite the looker to get the king to give her anything she wanted. The more power to her!
Samson!!??-The one who caught fire to his enemies' field by tying down 300 poor foxes together and putting torches on their tails? Sheesh!