LHG - I heard that nonsense, too. Also, going along with the anti-education stance when their spouses were educated professionals. I heard of one professional who wouldn't lie to the teens and encouraged higher education -- very rare/honest, good man.
I think if you'd been married to an elder you could have skated a bit working full time and they would've been kinder about your career. My friend (ex witness married to elder -- they were both highly educated and the JWs idolized him and looked down on her for her college degree but that's just the JW chauvinistic-pig beliefs on steroids) worked full time and had no intention of not working. She loved working and is still going strong. I knew a few others that may have called it 'part-time' to fly under the radar but I think it was full time. They know how to work the cult system.