Welcome Flamgrilled --- glad you are here and appreciate your view/info.
I agree w/some aspects of the WTS religion along with many other places of worship mentioned that take care of the disadvantaged. The WTS is one pecking order inside (not unique) and if one's status happens to blend/fit in the better, and sounds like you're one of those. If you were of a different socio-economic status or alloted fewer hrs. toward the WTS your comfort level would be different and you, too, would most likely have a different experience as you've acknowledged but experiencing it is believing! Much emotional pain and thus a higher than avg. need for mind control drugs/alcohol; this is not the only reason but I heard from so many people while inside who didn't fit in and were hurting. I feel for Miles3 and the majority of those recruited who leave feeling disillusioned.
Being involved in "worldly" organizations and charities I admit people are people (the good, the bad and the ugly) and just life. It's another hierarchy w/out the hypocrisy of God involved and proceeds helping the less fortunate in life according to real financial statements. An echelon exists the same as any where else --- much resentment/evil according to one's lot in life/neighborhood, etc.
Perhaps there are exceptions inside some congregations, but those who displayed their showy means of spirituality (service hrs., etc., "A" team players and their broods) were the ones taken care of by the clergy class/congregation. I was sick and tired of being hounded for monies to help these spiritual players out when they were too good to work but yearned to fulfill the society's requirements for club recognition. Recall a saying from the hens I studied with about staying as close to the center of spiritual ones in the congregation (who are they to judge for an opener). What an arrangement for the society.
Of course the publications/public talks endorse one to do it all but why work full time/over time/any time when you can pioneer and live off the taxpayers (welfare or social security professing mental problems to collect which many have done to advance themselves inside) and checks the clergy class collects from others' to boost their company's stats. The demands put upon the flock are sickening and I refused to do it. It's FAR from caring for the widows/orphans. I do realize the great need for someone/something out there to teach right/wrong, good/bad, work ethics 101, stop killing, hating, fighting (even if it's the WTS or any other religion because it's GREATLY lacking in society). Even if we are born w/a conscious that knows this already --- which I find hard to believe, humans' overwhelming addition to status/accolades/praise supersedes --- but far from Jesus' example and words.
Just my fast rant and experience!
LV101