HAhahahaha - thanks for the warning! I think I remember those words - the singing was the most stress free part of the meetings.
I'm so sorry what you've endured re/your (I can't call them 'fathers' when I sense they're toxic but don't want to be rude) -- you know who I'm referring to. I have an egg donor that's a real piece of work. They reap what they sow - unfortunately, who cares after one is up and gone - too late.