post a picture of the hat and then we get a better idea.....but I think it could be cute.
pack a pillow, some dishes (or are they being supplied?) maybe a small box you can look up (you never know)
go to the meetings with regular clothes and change there.....(use late classes excuse).
get the used Honda, but have it checked out first....at carfax.com, you can get a report on the car, if it has been in an accident, mileage and so on, how many owners.....cost is 19.95
Good Luck!