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to date JWism has defined my life and i hate that TRUTH

by oompa in

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and i am finding the adjustment to the real world far more difficult than i ever imagined...i f...it has been about five years since i totally woke up to the fraudulant nwt and then all my other doubts i had carried for years were proved true as well.

but almost all of my few friends are exjw or slack jw's and i feel so isolated...my sons friends are mostly exjw too but not their gf's and they have way more normal friends .

how have you done at replacing lifelong friends and family?

misguided

Dear Oompa

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Good news, finally regarding my ex-elder-pedophile-father-in-law...

by misguided in

about two weeks ago he was arested in bc, about 35 years too late thanks to wts cover-up.. he had a baby with my ex-husband's sister - my kids have a cousin who is also their aunt.

this was all covered up by moving from ontario to bc back in the early 1980s, and it all being hidden by the wts; even allowing this guy to serve as an elder after the fact...when i got married to my ex, his father was an elder, and the baby of the incest was 15. .

today and from now on, hopefully things will unravell for the wts in canada, as he sits in jail in ontario (where the crimes were committed)charged on 24 counts of sexual abuse.. i hope there is a lot of embarrassment going on in that congregation in ladner, bc when all this originally came to light about 28 years ago, the congregation that let this man become an elder...because, my own parents seem to be in "cover-my-ass" mode when it comes to talking about this matter with me..

misguided

Alrighty, then.

Canada is an awesome country. There is no statute of limitation on child sexual abuse for a good reason. At least most moral people would think so.

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Good news, finally regarding my ex-elder-pedophile-father-in-law...

by misguided in

about two weeks ago he was arested in bc, about 35 years too late thanks to wts cover-up.. he had a baby with my ex-husband's sister - my kids have a cousin who is also their aunt.

this was all covered up by moving from ontario to bc back in the early 1980s, and it all being hidden by the wts; even allowing this guy to serve as an elder after the fact...when i got married to my ex, his father was an elder, and the baby of the incest was 15. .

today and from now on, hopefully things will unravell for the wts in canada, as he sits in jail in ontario (where the crimes were committed)charged on 24 counts of sexual abuse.. i hope there is a lot of embarrassment going on in that congregation in ladner, bc when all this originally came to light about 28 years ago, the congregation that let this man become an elder...because, my own parents seem to be in "cover-my-ass" mode when it comes to talking about this matter with me..

misguided

Pistoff: PM it to me

You have a PM

Ziddina: (I'll see if I can get a MOD to move this thread...)

Thank you so very much. I am thoroughly blonde. 24 Counts is what I heard from my ex.

Karter: Make sure you ring your local newspaper and see if they will take up the story

I'm hoping someone else does it. It would just cause so much problems for myself and my family if I were the one to make the call. I just might have to though, if someone doesn't do it soon. I'm aware from my parents that there are a few JWs in the area that know of the arrest, but it seems like everyone is being tight-lipped about it.

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Good news, finally regarding my ex-elder-pedophile-father-in-law...

by misguided in

about two weeks ago he was arested in bc, about 35 years too late thanks to wts cover-up.. he had a baby with my ex-husband's sister - my kids have a cousin who is also their aunt.

this was all covered up by moving from ontario to bc back in the early 1980s, and it all being hidden by the wts; even allowing this guy to serve as an elder after the fact...when i got married to my ex, his father was an elder, and the baby of the incest was 15. .

today and from now on, hopefully things will unravell for the wts in canada, as he sits in jail in ontario (where the crimes were committed)charged on 24 counts of sexual abuse.. i hope there is a lot of embarrassment going on in that congregation in ladner, bc when all this originally came to light about 28 years ago, the congregation that let this man become an elder...because, my own parents seem to be in "cover-my-ass" mode when it comes to talking about this matter with me..

misguided

Clarity: No it has not hit the media yet. I'm hoping someone will leak the information out to them. I sort of feel like I may be kept "out-of-the-loop" regarding this if I leak it out, as I'm already hated by the JWs for speaking my mind on the cult. Something I said scandalous got printed a Canadian magazine about the sextuplets born in Vancouver where 2 died before the authorities took over and enforced blood transfusions on the surviving babies, where the information printed could only have come from me. I know I did the right thing, but it came with reprecussions both to me and my family. Although I hate my family's beliefs I still love them, and still hold out that they, or hopefully someone else....just...might...do...the...right...thing??? Do I have any volunteers???

PalmTree67: So true. That was exactly what was done to me. I was sexually abused, and I was told if I spoke about it, and/or the incident above, I would face disfellowshipping for "causing division." The situation had been "dealt with."

LouBelle: I'm axiously awaiting that, too.

Sapphy: Yes, you read that right. I'm quite sure he was an elder when the abuse was going on, but I'm not 100 percent. I think he got deleted because of it. Yes, he became an elder after he had had a baby with his daughter.

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Good news, finally regarding my ex-elder-pedophile-father-in-law...

by misguided in

about two weeks ago he was arested in bc, about 35 years too late thanks to wts cover-up.. he had a baby with my ex-husband's sister - my kids have a cousin who is also their aunt.

this was all covered up by moving from ontario to bc back in the early 1980s, and it all being hidden by the wts; even allowing this guy to serve as an elder after the fact...when i got married to my ex, his father was an elder, and the baby of the incest was 15. .

today and from now on, hopefully things will unravell for the wts in canada, as he sits in jail in ontario (where the crimes were committed)charged on 24 counts of sexual abuse.. i hope there is a lot of embarrassment going on in that congregation in ladner, bc when all this originally came to light about 28 years ago, the congregation that let this man become an elder...because, my own parents seem to be in "cover-my-ass" mode when it comes to talking about this matter with me..

misguided

I accidently posted this under jokes and humour...and this is no joke nor humour...this is a reality. Can one of you moderators help me out here?

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Good news, finally regarding my ex-elder-pedophile-father-in-law...

by misguided in

about two weeks ago he was arested in bc, about 35 years too late thanks to wts cover-up.. he had a baby with my ex-husband's sister - my kids have a cousin who is also their aunt.

this was all covered up by moving from ontario to bc back in the early 1980s, and it all being hidden by the wts; even allowing this guy to serve as an elder after the fact...when i got married to my ex, his father was an elder, and the baby of the incest was 15. .

today and from now on, hopefully things will unravell for the wts in canada, as he sits in jail in ontario (where the crimes were committed)charged on 24 counts of sexual abuse.. i hope there is a lot of embarrassment going on in that congregation in ladner, bc when all this originally came to light about 28 years ago, the congregation that let this man become an elder...because, my own parents seem to be in "cover-my-ass" mode when it comes to talking about this matter with me..

misguided

About two weeks ago he was arested in BC, about 35 years too late thanks to WTS cover-up.

He had a baby with my ex-husband's sister - my kids have a cousin who is also their aunt. This was all covered up by moving from Ontario to BC back in the early 1980s, and it all being hidden by the WTS; even allowing this guy to serve as an elder after the fact...when I got married to my ex, his father was an elder, and the baby of the incest was 15.

Today and from now on, hopefully things will unravell for the WTS in Canada, as he sits in jail in Ontario (where the crimes were committed)charged on 24 counts of sexual abuse.

I hope there is a lot of embarrassment going on in that congregation in Ladner, BC when all this originally came to light about 28 years ago, the congregation that let this man become an elder...because, my own parents seem to be in "cover-my-ass" mode when it comes to talking about this matter with me.

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still not used to my parents totally shunning me...

by oompa in

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thats all....its so hard...nobody should have to lose their parents twice............oompa.

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Oompa

I am sorry...and I do understand your post...too well *hugs*

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Are you attending the Memorial this year?

by XPeterX in

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dunno about you but i'm going..

misguided

NO!!! 2005 memorial was the last one I ever went to, actually the last time I ever went to a meeting. Something snapped in my head, and I realized I was never going to enter a KH again. When people talk to you through your children and not to you for shunning reasons, it clicked...this is a CULT...I was outta there, forever.

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