I was sad to read your story, but all of us former JWs could see where it was going-your tone was very regretful.
I hope that you will realize that this isn't really your fault, there was a good chance of this happening no matter how 'perfect' of a husband you even could have been.
Go forward, be happy and be glad that your only loss was financial. Your heart can heal, and like you said-at least there were no children. That is more a blessing than you can know in this situation. I hope you aren't scared off of women-not all will use you. You will be again be happy and may someday have a wife who doesn't worship 'jehovah's organization'. Religion isn't always a recipe for disaster, but that one sure is. A few special ones that you have met on this board survive, but it is not easy. Take care, and WELCOME to the board-we are happy to get to know you, though sad at your circumstances.
Shelly