That's just sad. I think when something like that happens to a woman, they worry a lot. I have a friend trying to leave an abusive marriage and she has so many worries about what will happen if she makes the final break that she isn't even able to see how much the status quo is killing her soul, day by day. How will I survive? How can I stay in this, but how can I LEAVE? The failure, the condemnation that everyone gets in a divorce (whether deserved or not, we all get those messages from those we love the most).
The husband is apparently an ass. I hope no one sends money to the hall. NO ONE!