Pink,
Thats an excellent point. I have never thought about how different cultures must treat disfellowshipping totally differently. I havent observed any disfellowshippings in latin families, but in the black families I saw this happen to, there was not nearly the amount of nastiness that the white families showed to their DFd relatives. But thinking back, this sounds kind of weird, but even though my hall was about 50/50 white/black, I would say 90% of the DFings were to white people!! weird.....