My son was like this when he was Df'd after leaving Bethel. All he wanted was to get back into his "community". And Frankly, as we were devout JW's at that time also, this is what we wanted too. I think his being disfellowshipped was the trigger for my own spiral downward into seeing the TTATT. It was not the main reason. But his experience through this and finally being re-instated, then the other issues over the child molestation crap is what made me open my eyes to the WT. But yes, I have known uber disfellowshipped ones who think you should shun them. One thing, though is we refused to shun our son. No matter what threats came at us from the "brothers". They wanted us to kick him out of our home, and we refused. Yep, He was our son, and this was the start of me beginning to realize how much my family needed to free ourselves from this religion. I could go on and on but, will not. Your post just brought up some memories.:)
Shana