I'm sorry but your philosophy about guns means nothing to me. And I don't like blaming the victim in any situation, especially this one. This was a highly unlawful circumstance forced upon my family and one which we needed to take decisive steps in order to protect ourselves from future victimization. The first step was installing a security system which would give the burglar a LOUD reminder that he can change his course before the cops get there. Non-violent and non-confrontational on our part, really. If that didn't work, we could be certain his intentions would be extremely confrontational and worthy of EXTREME suspicion on our part as to his intent. If the security alarm could not serve as the needed buffer between this guy and my family...well, it's really on him, isn't it? I did not create the situation that he would find himself in. He would choose to escalate things, not me.
I loathe the idea of shooting someone for any reason and doubt I'll ever need to put my hand on that gun but I will not hesitate to defend myself and my family if someone confronts me after ignoring the safe barriers I put up to keep him away. And I don't have to defend the place in my home where I choose to house my gun either.
The lack of empathy boggles..
CC