Excuse me? First off I was not addressing you, second of all maybe I should have thought about the way I phrased my statement but my point is the same. If you have such contempt for the witnesses as a whole why in the name of god would you want their respect?
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199Why don't you just take it like a man?
by AK - Jeff inin a recent thread, i was basically called out in this manner.. here is part of the quote:.
mean no disrespect with the following but i have to ask, when you disassociated yourself what did you think would happen?
did you expect witnesses to suddenly change to accommodate you?
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How about a new happy thread...the best thing that happened to you this month!
by restrangled inthe best thing for me..... my son stopped over and he realized he needs to buy a home....so we quickly did a run on the internet in our neighborhood and he found a jewel.. whether he gets it or not....it was fun for both my husband and myself to go see, help him ask questions and give him the ok.. it's probably just a dream, but reminded us of our younger days.. how was your day?
something happy please!!!!
we have enough horrible negatives going on right now..
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lola28
FHN, thank you for always being so sweet to me, tell you what if I get a ring i'll PM you first,lol
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I Have A New Grandson But He's Very Sick :(
by minimus inhe was born yesterday with many complications including breathing problems, possible lung underdevelpment, anemia and body temperature issues.
the poor little guy was hooked up to a breathing tube and tons of monitors.
because the hospitals couldn't handle some of the problems, they sent him and my daughter to the best hospital in boston last night.
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lola28
Awww Min I hope the little one is okay and ready to go home soon enough, btw kudos on the wonderful name!
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Why don't you just take it like a man?
by AK - Jeff inin a recent thread, i was basically called out in this manner.. here is part of the quote:.
mean no disrespect with the following but i have to ask, when you disassociated yourself what did you think would happen?
did you expect witnesses to suddenly change to accommodate you?
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lola28
“Lola comes on to an XJW SITE, to tell people to get over being an XJW. I mean seriously. Going fishing with dynamite????”
That is not what I did, what you are holding onto are posts that I made several months ago, maybe even a year ago in reference to a poster who blamed all his woes on the fact that he has raised a JW. I’m going to once more explain what my point was on this thread and the other and if you are too dense to get it that’s too darn bad.
My question was why anyone would want to be recognized by a group that they loathe. We are talking not about a person that was DF’ed but about a person that disassociated because they could no longer support this religion. If your dislike is so great why would you be so needy and desperate for their attention and respect?
And while I’m at it, let me say this, how dare anyone demand that they be respected and not afford the same respect to others that they demand be shown towards them. You can’t have it both ways, you can’t tell a whole group of people to go straight to hell and then expect them to smile at you at the grocery store. How dare you disregard the feelings of other people in such blatant way? Can you imagine how up in arms people would be if Jeff had come on here and posted that JW’s keep visiting him at home? Everyone would be outraged that the witnesses would be so pushy and so invasive of his personal space. Can you imagine what a painful and uncomfortable situation a JW is put in when someone that they are not allowed to talk to comes up to them and tries to force them into acknowledging them? Do their feelings not matter? Should they not be afforded the same respect we want and demand? Should we not how them compassion because they are as mislead as we once were?
Beskbeks, I asked Jeff what was a sincere question and he addressed my question with nothing but respect. He might not have agreed with me but he did give me some insight into where he was coming from without resorting to personal attacks. I don’t know what your problem is and frankly I don’t care, but lady if you think I’ll sit around and let you bully me you have another thing coming. If you want to discredit what I’m saying by taking the time to look thru all my posts and dragging things out that I wrote a year or more ago, go to it but don’t expect me to sit quietly by while you attack me, got it?
Lola
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Michael Vick convicted "Dog fight" organiser allowed by the NFL to play football again...you guys suck!
by Witness 007 inresponsible for organised dogfights and the death and torture of a huge number of dogs, michael vick can now play football again thanks to the nfl.
what kind of "sports superstar" example is this for our kids...the nfl have no morals and suck!
i hope he gets booed off the field...scumbag!.
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lola28
If you are looking for an NFL player to teach your kids "morals" you are in trouble.
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Why don't you just take it like a man?
by AK - Jeff inin a recent thread, i was basically called out in this manner.. here is part of the quote:.
mean no disrespect with the following but i have to ask, when you disassociated yourself what did you think would happen?
did you expect witnesses to suddenly change to accommodate you?
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lola28
How long ago was the quote from? Six months ago, a year maybe even two? I never ever claimed not to have been hurt when I left, I never claimed not to miss people that I spent my teenage years with. I had nightmares for over a year after leaving, I felt more alone than I ever had but you know after a while it has to hit you that you can’t have it all. You can’t indulge yourself and live the life you want to and be surprised, shocked or angry when the witnesses disapprove and cut you off. Seriously people what the hell did you expect to happen?
By the way I’m impressed that you actually took the time to look thru my posts to find that gem. How long did it take you to find it?
Lola
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Why don't you just take it like a man?
by AK - Jeff inin a recent thread, i was basically called out in this manner.. here is part of the quote:.
mean no disrespect with the following but i have to ask, when you disassociated yourself what did you think would happen?
did you expect witnesses to suddenly change to accommodate you?
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lola28
Oh Mrs. Jones calling you a pain is much better than what I really think you are, you don't bother me one bit dear but you are acting like a, wait never mind I think if i told you what I thought of you I would be breaking at least three of the forum rules, so I'll refrain.
Toodles!
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Why don't you just take it like a man?
by AK - Jeff inin a recent thread, i was basically called out in this manner.. here is part of the quote:.
mean no disrespect with the following but i have to ask, when you disassociated yourself what did you think would happen?
did you expect witnesses to suddenly change to accommodate you?
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lola28
Oh is that why you've been such a pain to me?
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Why don't you just take it like a man?
by AK - Jeff inin a recent thread, i was basically called out in this manner.. here is part of the quote:.
mean no disrespect with the following but i have to ask, when you disassociated yourself what did you think would happen?
did you expect witnesses to suddenly change to accommodate you?
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lola28
Oh look it's the PMS gang, so nice to see you ladies
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Why don't you just take it like a man?
by AK - Jeff inin a recent thread, i was basically called out in this manner.. here is part of the quote:.
mean no disrespect with the following but i have to ask, when you disassociated yourself what did you think would happen?
did you expect witnesses to suddenly change to accommodate you?
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lola28
That’s not at all what it sounds like Baba, it sounds more like “If you are not born in and if you refuse to always view yourself as a victim, your opinion does not matter”.