Dear Miss Crumpet, the truth is: a woman may take a man back after he has strayed from the relationship,
but when a woman has sex with another man the man is through with her ---even if he does not have the nerve to tell this to her face. Yes, he sees the unfairness of it all, but he cant help his feelings. He will never love that woman again. In fact he calls her a "bitch" in his heart. Unfair, but true.
Now, about your current boyfriend, how long is he going to put up with your behavoir? Most people are not comfortable with sharing their loved one with all the past lovers.
Could alcohol be playing a bigger role in your problems than you'd like to admit?
It can interfere with spirituality and emotions and seeing things clearly and with moving on to maturity.
I'm only giving you the good advice I was given myself love.
Best wishes,
Anewme
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This is probably very immature of me, but
by Crumpet inlast night my ex boyfriend finally admitted to me that he cheated on me whilst we were going out.
we split up about 7 years ago.
what is irking me most is that i've asked him before if he had and he totally denied it.
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Christopher Reeves widow battling lung cancer.
by HappyDad ini feel for this family.
they have been through enough tragedy for a dozen people.
happydad.
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anewme
Yes, I was shocked by this news. Dana, so loyal to her husband all those years. I hope she beats this cancer! She deserves to enjoy her life with her son. She is a fine example of loyal love.
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anewme
No carbs? No fat? No carbs nor fat? Exercise only? Cereal 3X daily? Boullion only? How about that guy---3 subway sandwiches a day!
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What's your favorite classical music?
by DanTheMan inof course beethoven's fifth is tops for me, and the ninth close behind.
also sprach zarathustra - strauss.
fanfare for the common man - aaron copeland (what a nice thing that was for him to dedicate such a great piece of music to plebeians like me *sniff*).
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Oh yes, Madame Butterfly! The first opera I ever went to. What did I do to my earlier post???
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What's your favorite classical music?
by DanTheMan inof course beethoven's fifth is tops for me, and the ninth close behind.
also sprach zarathustra - strauss.
fanfare for the common man - aaron copeland (what a nice thing that was for him to dedicate such a great piece of music to plebeians like me *sniff*).
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<div>What a delightful thread! You all make me want to go to the symphony tonight and hear ANYTHING!!
<br></br><br></br>Its all good!
<br></br><br></br>Lately for dinner I've been playing a CD with Satie, Ravel, Debussy and Chopin ---very romantic and calming
<br></br><br></br><br></br>I remember the Roman Carnival Overture by Berlioz
<br></br><br></br><br></br>Also the opera Carmen (by Bizet?) Carmen is an asian girl who loves a naval officer. He leaves her to go back to America. She gives birth to his son while he is away for years. She keeps her hope bright that one day he will return for her and her son. But terrible dissappointment awaits her.
<br></br><br></br>A poignant highlight in the opera is when she takes her life. When she dies she cries out in song!
<br></br><br></br>It is so moving! A must see.
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Greendawn on vacations
by greendawn insince the first of august i am on vacations so i won't be posting much, often i have no internet access there are no internet cafes in caves (on mountains) in the middle of nowhere but there are nice lakes and forests.
this trip will finish in mid september.
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Yes, have a nice time Greendawn. Nature is the best spiritual book to read.
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Insight To The Scriptures....how can I get a copy?
by anewme inof all the literature i left behind that day i moved from my elder husband's home i now wish i'd taken the insight books.
more than once i have desired to peer again into the many bible subjects discussed in length there.
having been away for 3-4 years now, how can i obtain a set?
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Thankyou Blondie
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Insight To The Scriptures....how can I get a copy?
by anewme inof all the literature i left behind that day i moved from my elder husband's home i now wish i'd taken the insight books.
more than once i have desired to peer again into the many bible subjects discussed in length there.
having been away for 3-4 years now, how can i obtain a set?
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anewme
Nobody knows what they ask as donation?
What if I wanted literature as a DFd person?
Would it cause an uproar at the hall?
This is a new town for me. No one knows me here. I have changed my name.
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Insight To The Scriptures....how can I get a copy?
by anewme inof all the literature i left behind that day i moved from my elder husband's home i now wish i'd taken the insight books.
more than once i have desired to peer again into the many bible subjects discussed in length there.
having been away for 3-4 years now, how can i obtain a set?
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anewme
Of all the literature I left behind that day I moved from my elder husband's home I now wish I'd taken the Insight Books. More than once I have desired to peer again into the many Bible subjects discussed in length there. Having been away for 3-4 years now, how can I obtain a set? Do I go to the hall on a Sunday and go up to the literature desk? Should I call the KH and disguise myself as an interested householder?
Should I obtain one through the P.O.?
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Sep 15th WT: Christians spend weekends enjoying recreation and not service
by truthseeker inin a recent post, sir82 wrote that a trainee missionary attending the school of gilead emailed the following..
"it was brought out that christendom and the world smacks of .
baalism today.
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Wow, this was a good subject especially now with summer in full swing and coming to a close soon.
It made me so sad to remember the pain in my heart of having to choose Jehovah over having a life.
Gratefully I had no children that I dragged out in service with us.
My husband was so oblivious to my needs. If we had children he would have badgered them to soldier on too.
WE NEVER TOOK A VACATION OUR ENTIRE MARRIAGE-----20 YEARS. Yeah, it was that bad.
But I feel sorry for the family I left still serving Jehovah. We were all suffering and stuck.
There were 15 children and I was their loving aunt anewme.
But I have no contact with any of them now and so cannot help them.
In their minds they believe I am dead.
NEWSFLASH!!!!!
I'm not dead! I just went to beautiful Monterey and Carmel on Saturday------GORGEOUS!!!!!!!
I sat on the white sand and fed funny seagulls. Then walked through the cozy town of Carmel Shops. It was cool and a bit foggy. I like that. I love the coast.....very spiritually uplifting.
My new husband and I were so happy we found ourselves greeting other couples we passed.
What a nice weekend! Thankyou Universe!!