as to the girl, I've been in that situation. I promised myself that I'd never let another moment like that pass me by. What is the worst that would happen? I'd make an ass of myself and then have a funny story to tell? Yeah. I just start talking. I let the animal side take over and just begin. It usually turns out well.
"I noticed you when I walked in and I wanted to take a second to come and find out what you were like."
As much as you share with us the bright spots regarding your son, you seem to broadcast decoy information.Hmm, how so?
Realizing of course that we are all just 1's and 0's with little to no face, no voice and no true prescence you still keep us at arms length. Rarely do you post things or start topics that are revealing. We know the ass routine. We know that you are a good dad. With the smallness of your social circle in "real life" this is a haven for you marked by the fact that most of the time you are the largest contributor to posts by far actually. With that said you seem to spend your posting time in support of others but rarely allowing others to do you that same service. I know this because Tyler knows this. By that I mean, I'm that way. Sometimes I realize my limitations and know that I need support. I have to force myself to post personal things. I don't slip, I don't accidently say anything. Probably because I am an ultra private person who builds a wall using decoy information to project to most that they are close to me, when really they know only what I want them to. You know this because Tyler knows this. This is what you are too. I think you are probably the best manipulator that you know but you don't use that quality because you despise it but it has kept you safe. Okay I'm getting nauseous from the armchair psychology.