Lady Liberty thank you so much for that - although I have to admit my eyes still glazed over, just as they used to at the kh. Which makes me think that I was one of those worst ones who didn't even know why I thought it was the truth, just believed it 'cos I was told to.
I could think of lots of q's to ask now about doctrinal stuff and I am fascinated and impressed that you guys know so much stuff, before and after.
For me it was more a following of the heart. I couldn't shun my father when he was df'd (still is) and just found the judgment, hypocrisy and self-righteousness too much. The only doctrinal thing that did it for me was the blood issue, I looked into that more deeply through necessity when I found out I was RHnegative with my first pregnancy. A few years later when they started to bring in a lot more changes it really bothered me.
Thanks again, I appreciate all the work you guys put in to research.