Posts by Christina77

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Blood Type

by Christina77 in

is it normal for those that refuse blood to not know their blood type?

that is usually one of the first things that the hospital lets parents know about their kids and when you go for any blood work it is on the top of the sheet.

i have a very rare blood type and i questioned my boyfriend about his for future knowlege when we have kids.

Cassiline, that is horrible... I didn't realize that, but I really don't intend on bringing up that subject with anyone that has a direct effect on him, just to make sure that he isn't penalized... But are they going to ask that of us? and I guess we need to discuss what the answer will be so that we both are on the same page. And won't they take away his privilages just for dating me, and it will be moreso when we get married? I am preparing myself to deal with whatever comes my way, and I will stand my ground and I have already told him that he HAS to back me up, because he brought ME into this.

Thanks
Christina

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Blood Type

by Christina77 in

is it normal for those that refuse blood to not know their blood type?

that is usually one of the first things that the hospital lets parents know about their kids and when you go for any blood work it is on the top of the sheet.

i have a very rare blood type and i questioned my boyfriend about his for future knowlege when we have kids.

Christina77

I am well aware of that fact and I know that is what he is definitely avoiding letting anyone know about me... and it will be absolutely horrible. He also said when he told me that he was a JW, that I can't tell his parents that we are having sex, but they are going to assume that we are... I really don't think it is proper dinner conversation and I would feel very uncomfortable talking to them reguardless of anything to do with sex.... The most that I would ever believe I would tell them would be... oh we are trying to get pregnant or we are pregnant... end of story... and I am not pregnant just to make that clear... And I can't exactly hide the fact that I have had pre-maritial sex, since my proof looks at me everyday from my daughters eyes. And thank god I never married her father...

Why would it matter after we got married, they arn't going to be nice to us anyway... and it isn't like I would be walking around telling everyone that we slept together before we got married and especially since I know what they are going to do to him because of it.

Thank you for your advice... and all the advice that I can get is helping me so much, more than you can imagine... I need all I can get to help me prepare for my future.

Christina

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Blood Type

by Christina77 in

is it normal for those that refuse blood to not know their blood type?

that is usually one of the first things that the hospital lets parents know about their kids and when you go for any blood work it is on the top of the sheet.

i have a very rare blood type and i questioned my boyfriend about his for future knowlege when we have kids.

Christina77

Sirona -

The main post about my relationship is under Relationships/Dating/Sex, the post is Interfaith Relationship. He is 25 and I am 24, young but old enough to make that decision properly. Both his sister and brother got married younger than we are... and I am not his first sexual partner and neither is he mine... we have both had a good amount of experience... so I don't think it is guilt to marry me... We do truthfully love eachother, and hate being apart. My religion pushes 6 months to get engaged and 6 months to get married... but rarely is it used... People take their time and make sure that this is the right person.

Thanks again
Christina

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Blood Type

by Christina77 in

is it normal for those that refuse blood to not know their blood type?

that is usually one of the first things that the hospital lets parents know about their kids and when you go for any blood work it is on the top of the sheet.

i have a very rare blood type and i questioned my boyfriend about his for future knowlege when we have kids.

Christina77

Yes Larc, I do get it... and that is why I am trying to get more information from a neutral source on the issues that I need answered. Yes he is going to marry me... that is all I hear from him.... when WE get married.... When WE have kids... When WE live together... etc. etc. etc. And can't I pose a question? I know the blood transfusion thing is wrong and he will never have one... but didn't you discuss things that pertained to it when you took biology... ok kids go home and find out what your parents blood type is, so we can do a punnet square... and that is it... I need to know, I don't care if he has any reason to use it, and when it comes down to it when we do have kids... He has to get it tested... I am only thinking of the future... nothing soon... that is all... and these are things I need to know now, before we get married, it is issues like this that I need to base my reasoning on and if I can actually handle this... And I know why he hasn't introduced me to his parents... because he is scared of what his community will do to him and will only do it when we have everything settled that we can move in with eachother and support eachother as a family. Because I don't know what the outcome will be, but he is no going to give me up. Not now, not ever... no matter what they say!

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Blood Type

by Christina77 in

is it normal for those that refuse blood to not know their blood type?

that is usually one of the first things that the hospital lets parents know about their kids and when you go for any blood work it is on the top of the sheet.

i have a very rare blood type and i questioned my boyfriend about his for future knowlege when we have kids.

Christina77

When he isn't acting like one, doing anything for them, discussing anything etc... My boyfriend is very pleasent... just when anything is brought up (usually by me) he gets weird on me as if he is afraid of giving me the answer or finding it out for himself... I have no problem with his beliefs and I respect that... I just wish that he didn't clam up and not want to find things out that I need to know... and these are things that I must know before we get married, or else I will not be able to be by his side... and he needs to respect the info that I must find out... I really don't even see how he fits in or how he can be with me in the first place, so I am just trying to figure out things on my own to benifit our relationship and better understand him. I need to know if certain things are just him or things that are practiced by the whole community.

Thanks

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Blood Type

by Christina77 in

is it normal for those that refuse blood to not know their blood type?

that is usually one of the first things that the hospital lets parents know about their kids and when you go for any blood work it is on the top of the sheet.

i have a very rare blood type and i questioned my boyfriend about his for future knowlege when we have kids.

Christina77

Closer2fine -

I am sorry that you felt that way, I hate that you really can't figure out emotions without using those symbols... I just hate the fact that I have to be a pincusion and I loath having to go through that again.

My boyfriend is such a hypocrite when it comes to things about his beliefs and doesn't let me in on his little world. I am just looking for some info that will give me some ammunition when we DO talk. He has gone for at least 3 blood tests since we have been dating and keeps forgetting to ask.... sure.... right... it doesn't hurt to ask. I am just so frustrated and fed up with his crap... and I want to know if this is a common occurance... and he would never go give blood... it is as if that is just as bad as getting it himself... he didn't even like the fact that I was looking to donate blood!

Thanks again for all your help
Christina

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Blood Type

by Christina77 in

is it normal for those that refuse blood to not know their blood type?

that is usually one of the first things that the hospital lets parents know about their kids and when you go for any blood work it is on the top of the sheet.

i have a very rare blood type and i questioned my boyfriend about his for future knowlege when we have kids.

Christina77

I know what the procedure is since I have been through it before, and yes it is rare... I have a medical degree so I know all the info, thanks for adding it though... I am just curious if it is normal for him not knowing his...

Thanks

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Blood Type

by Christina77 in

is it normal for those that refuse blood to not know their blood type?

that is usually one of the first things that the hospital lets parents know about their kids and when you go for any blood work it is on the top of the sheet.

i have a very rare blood type and i questioned my boyfriend about his for future knowlege when we have kids.

Christina77

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Blood Type

by Christina77 in

is it normal for those that refuse blood to not know their blood type?

that is usually one of the first things that the hospital lets parents know about their kids and when you go for any blood work it is on the top of the sheet.

i have a very rare blood type and i questioned my boyfriend about his for future knowlege when we have kids.

Christina77

Is it normal for those that refuse blood to not know their blood type? That is usually one of the first things that the hospital lets parents know about their kids and when you go for any blood work it is on the top of the sheet. I have a very rare blood type and I questioned my boyfriend about his for future knowlege when we have kids. If I don't know his type, I will have to be a human pin cusion so that my child won't die from blood poisoning. He refuses to find out and I don't want to know when it is too late... I had to go through it with my first pregnancy since my ex was too chicken to get the test done. I am just curious to find out if this is a common practice and if there are people out there that actually know what theirs happens to be even if they have no intent on using it.

Thanks
Christina

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Interfaith Relationship

by Christina77 in

i am currently involved in a relationship for the last year and a half with a man that i found out about 2 months ago is a jehovahs witness (and i am catholic).

the only reason why i found this out, was that i was pushing the issue as to why his parents do not know that i exist.

this really irritated me since he has a very close relationship with his parents.

Christina77

Six of Nine -

I understand how converstations work and I see it happen on other boards, and I have added to some of them and I think it is wrong... when you continue to have a conversation completely different from a topic that is honestly looking for advice on that topic and in need of help, it gives me false hope that someone has actually posted something that will help me deal with the situation. When I see an e-mail in my box saying that someone has added a post, I think someone may be there for me. But when I see pages and pages of things that are unrelated, why should I check my post again.... you tell me the answer to that, but I think you know where I am coming from... wasistdas very nicely started another topic so that discussion can continue and I thank her, so then you can go find it and continue from there. Thank you!