Richard,
Many of us have been hurt in several ways by the "org" and so our feeling towards it are raw. Many also would like to see it cease to exist, just as JWs would like to convert everyone if possible. Telling us to "move on" is the same as telling JWs to stop preaching. JWs would say that's ludicrous as they are trying to save lives. We feel the same.
Personally, I rarely engage on this forum any more as I prefer the reddit exjw community.
I hope you find what you're looking for. :)