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5000 PAGES OF DOCUMENTS OF JW PEDOPHILE CASES AVAILABLE! B ANDERSON BOOK

by Seeker4 in

barbara anderson has just released a new book on cd that contains some 5000 pages of public court records from the nine lawsuits involving 16 victims that the wts settled secretly in may of this year, plus documents from two other cases the society settled in 2000 and 2006.. .

its called secrets of pedophilia in an american religion: jehovahs witnesses in crisis.. .

the book, and more info from barbara about it, is available here:.

coffee_black

Ordered mine too... can't wait to read this! Wow!

Coffee

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GROWING UP IN MAMAS CLUB

by Dogpatch in

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friends

i do not know richard personally, nor do i or free minds, inc. get any $$ from this, but it sounds like a good book!

we will not be carrying any new books for awhile, but you can check the links directly.

randy.

coffee_black

It is a very good book. I've read it, and would recommend it. You'll enjoy it...it's easy reading, and I could identify with almost everything in it.

Coffee

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need serious advice

by coffee_black in

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friends

i don't know where to start.

i'm on vacation, staying with my daughter for the next few days...and then we're going (my daughter & her 3 kids) to my son's wedding reception some distance from here.. she has been trying to finalize her divorce and custody of the kids for about 6 years now.

they have been separated for that long.

coffee_black

Luckily he doesn't live in the same house as my daughter & the kids...so the sweets thing won't work. He's not allowed in the door. My daughter has a big dog too...and he sounds a large alarm when anyone approaches the house. The court still allows him visitation...but he has no car or driver's license. In spite of that, he has stalked her on numerous occasions.

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need serious advice

by coffee_black in

jw
friends

i don't know where to start.

i'm on vacation, staying with my daughter for the next few days...and then we're going (my daughter & her 3 kids) to my son's wedding reception some distance from here.. she has been trying to finalize her divorce and custody of the kids for about 6 years now.

they have been separated for that long.

coffee_black

She is planning on taking it all to the authorities....and has friends she will stay with until he is safely behind bars... Apparently using their son's social security number is fraud that he can go to prison for. She's already talked to the police about that one. They told her to get the documentation and they will act on it....She has the proof now...she had sent away for copies of his credit file and she has all she needs to document it now.

I want her out of here now....and she may....I just wish I had a magic wand. He hasn't ever abused the kids physically. They are honor students....and great kids.

Coffee

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need serious advice

by coffee_black in

jw
friends

i don't know where to start.

i'm on vacation, staying with my daughter for the next few days...and then we're going (my daughter & her 3 kids) to my son's wedding reception some distance from here.. she has been trying to finalize her divorce and custody of the kids for about 6 years now.

they have been separated for that long.

coffee_black

She has copies of all the restraining orders against him (both her own and others with all the statements involved) and his psych evaluations. A friend referred me to a good lawyer here.... I just told her about the shelter in my state... She doesn't want to go that route. She could stay with me....but I live with a cousin, and there really isn't space for an extended stay... I know my cousin would take her in in a minute though, and it may come to that.

Not all of this is recent, although the pattern seems to be getting worse. He recently threatened her life in front of their 12 year old son.

Thanks for all of your advice...We've got a lot of thinking to do.....

Coffee

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need serious advice

by coffee_black in

jw
friends

i don't know where to start.

i'm on vacation, staying with my daughter for the next few days...and then we're going (my daughter & her 3 kids) to my son's wedding reception some distance from here.. she has been trying to finalize her divorce and custody of the kids for about 6 years now.

they have been separated for that long.

coffee_black

She's working...has a fairly good job with health insurance etc.... but no real future there. He has harassed her there...calling over and over threatening, stalking...and she gets in trouble for it... I honestly think it would be the best solution to get her out of here.

If she leaves the state with the kids...could he say she kidnapped them? Would the shelter protect her if she can document many of his actions?

Coffee

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need serious advice

by coffee_black in

jw
friends

i don't know where to start.

i'm on vacation, staying with my daughter for the next few days...and then we're going (my daughter & her 3 kids) to my son's wedding reception some distance from here.. she has been trying to finalize her divorce and custody of the kids for about 6 years now.

they have been separated for that long.

coffee_black

She has had restraining orders on him before, and he has violated every one. The courts haven't done anything to him for violating them. She doesn't have the money to spend on lawyers. Her lawyer for the divorce did next to nothing and it cost a fortune. The divorce is still not final.

Leaving the state is drastic, and I don't know what that will do for her legally... but there's no protection for her here.

Coffee

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need serious advice

by coffee_black in

jw
friends

i don't know where to start.

i'm on vacation, staying with my daughter for the next few days...and then we're going (my daughter & her 3 kids) to my son's wedding reception some distance from here.. she has been trying to finalize her divorce and custody of the kids for about 6 years now.

they have been separated for that long.

coffee_black

I don't know where to start. I'm on vacation, staying with my daughter for the next few days...and then we're going (my daughter & her 3 kids) to my son's wedding reception some distance from here.

She has been trying to finalize her divorce and custody of the kids for about 6 years now. They have been separated for that long. She just told me more than I ever knew before about the situation. I am sooooo scared for her and the kids.

He has threatened and intimidated her...holding a gun in her mouth on several occasions. There have been numerous restraining orders issued on him by my daughter and several others of his girlfriends and their families. He has injured a number of people. He has been Baker acted twice, been on drugs and has been diagnosed by 2 court ordered psychiatrists as mentally ill and dangerous to himself and others. He has used my grandson's social security number to secure apartments and phones, and skipped payment. He has threatened to kill my daughter and others as well... That only scratches the surface. I'm speachless. I knew it was bad, but not this bad... Nothing brought against him in court sticks. He doesn't pay child support except for a few dollars every few months... but he seems to be able to get a lawyer to get him out of whatever the situation is.

What to do? I'm ready to suggest that she just pack up the kids, a few necessities and head home with me after my son's reception....it's a different state...and has a good system of shelters for battered women and help for her to get on her feet. He doesn't know where I live. I'm afraid if she stays here he'll hurt her and the kids. The man has no conscience. He is also bi polar and a diabetic..who does not take care of his disease...drinks all the time....

Any suggestions?

Coffee

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