I think my ex-wife totally enjoyed the headship, she manipulated it to her advantage. I'd work my ass off 60 hours a week doing, what else janitorial work, and she would get to stay home and pour me a bowl of cereal and open cans of ravioli for my meals, and play house. If I said why can't you get a job so I don't have to do this shitty job all alone, she'd be quick to get either her dad/elder or the local elders to read that F-ing scripture about a man providing for his wife. Yeah well in this day and age things are different most people need two incomes to make it, and I don't have a goat farm like the bible is talking about.
My five years of marriage was just me basically being a slave, since especially we're "not allowed" to go to school and get a good job why do women get to stay home when the men mostly have bad jobs, its all image and a very stupid one. I definately had no headship at home, I had no say i couldn't even put my own feet on my own damn coffeetable! I really hate her!
Its so nice now having these things called "discussions" and sometimes, actually lots of times I get my own way, ahhh the life of a worldly person...BRING IT ON!!
This has nothing to do with the current subject but sometimes I still get all excited about getting to stay home on a tue/thur night or sun morning, its just like the meeting has been cancelled for a snowstorm or something.