LB and Rekless: "Grow old along with me; the best is yet to be!"
I've got white starting to show up in my goatee. Girlfriend Debra says it looks "cool". That's good enough for me. :D~
Posts by COMF
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22Beards,Tatoos and Body Piercing !
by YYHWH init sure is nice to have the freedom to enjoy some of the simple things in life without having a guilt trip.. i remember when i was in the non-truth and i would go on vacation i would always use the oppurtunity to grow out my beard, of course my wife would insist that i shave before anybody from the hall saw me.. now i keep a full beard and it cracks me up when i run into people from the hall and when they talk to me they seem to not be able to not stare at my beard.. i cant wait to get me a tatoo.
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I am going to be just fine :)
by WildHorses ini don't know if any of you really want to hear this, so if not please stop reading here.. i told a few of you about a guy i have been seeing for the past few months.
well, i found out that he has been seeing other women, and i spoke to him last night and tried to break it off with him.
he didnt want to hear it.
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Hi, Shari,
You say you've been seeing this guy for "the past few months", yet he's only been single for 9 months. Some really good advice I've heard over and over through the years is, when you end a relationship, give yourself a full year before you get involved with anyone, to allow yourself time to deal with the emotional issues. This is not only good advice for the one whose relationship has ended; it's good to apply to people you're considering as a potential partner. If they haven't been out of their last relationship for a year, they aren't ready.
I've seen a few negative references to this man in your thread; cheater, pig, he'll never be faithful, etc. You say you "found out" that he was seeing other women, but you don't say that you two had made a commitment to be monogamous. If you hadn't discussed your relationship openly with each other and agreed to this level of intimacy, then he is neither a cheater nor a pig, nor can we assume that he will never be faithful. Most likely, you had him pegged when you said, "you are recently single and wish to retain your freedom." I can certainly relate to that, although in such cases it's considerate of the man to explain his intentions to the woman right away.
Anyway, I agree that the first draft of your letter had a flavor of instability about it; you sounded like you were wavering and were practically begging to be talked out of your resolve. The second draft is better.
I applaud you for taking this step, being firm about it.
Now, another possibility for you to consider: while you're looking for Mr. Right, and until you think you have found him, is it in realm of possibility for you to use this guy to alleviate a little recurrent sexual desire with no strings attached?
You might want to view the possibilities from that angle. If you aren't asking anything and you aren't giving your heart, then maybe you've got the makings of a good short-term thing here.
COMF
PS:
That's because no one here has shown any interest in me LOL
Not quite accurate, hon. I tried to get your attention a couple of times in chat, but you were busy with somebody else and didn't respond to my exploratory conversation directed your way, so I gave it up. Ah, well...
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THE LION WHO SAW HIS FACE IN THE WATER
by Nathan Natas inthe lion who saw his face in the water.
there was once a lion who lived in a desert that was very windy; and because of this, the water in the holes from which he usually drank was never still, for the wind riffled the surface and it never reflected anything.. one day this lion wandered into a forest, where he hunted and played,until he felt rather tired and thirsty.
looking for water, he came across a pool of the coolest, most tempting, and most placid water that you could possibly imagine.
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the 'other lion' disappeared.
Wow... no lion?
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Phenomenal Woman
by COMF inphenomenally.. phenomenal woman,.
phenomenally.. phenomenal woman,.
phenomenally.. phenomenal woman,.
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I rise
(to the top again)
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Satan's Time Lessens
by Yadirf insatan's time lessens
the wts is the closest thing to the restoration of true worship that exists on the face of the earth today, all it needs now is to be perfected.
and it certainly has its enemies.
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Satan’s Time Lessens
"Lessons" is spelled with an "o", Friday. Do you think the society has, after earning so many F's on its prophecy report card, finally learned the lesson for good?
COMF
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Psychoanalyze Yourself
by Tammie inthis is a very interesting test.
try it.. have a pen and paper handy before you read any further.. as soon as you read a question, write the answer right away.. make sure to answer questions 1-10 before moving on...no cheating!!
read the following questions, imagining the scenes in your mind, and write down the first thing that you visualize.
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1. Myself.
2. A possum.
3. I watch it quietly, without trying to either hide from it or scare it.
4. Spacious two-story log home.
5. No fence.
6. I saw my grandparents' dining room, the scene of all our big family get-togethers when I was a child.
7. Bone china.
8. Carry it with me.
9. A lake.
10. I'm not concerned about getting across the lake. I know that I can circumnavigate it whenever I want to.I don't agree with the comment on #6, the dining room. I did not see people, food or flowers. I saw instead the potential for those things, when the time is right. It isn't mealtime, you see. I'm just walking through my house, not cooking for and serving a crowd. Nor would I continue on through the house if food were set out and people present.
Overall, though, it's a nice bit of entertainment. Thanks!
COMF
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What should I do??? Help!!
by Delite2k ini'm a non-jw dating a jw male ( for three months now) and he treats me like a woman should be treated.
he's the best i've ever been with...ya know what i mean?
!......we have sex when and where we can (receintly at the job
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Milk it for the good times while they last, and get yourself mentally and emotionally prepared in advance to move on when it's time to.
COMF
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How old were you when you lost your virginity...
by butalbee inhow old were you when you lost your virginity and was it all that you thought it would be?????.
i was 19, and my first time was a complete let down.
i envisioned that gothic romance motif, all about romance and love, i didn't know what i was doing, didn't know sex was like that.
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I was playing in a rock band. We had a two-night gig at Hemisfair, the 1968 world's fair in San Antonio. The whole band headed off to Mexico after the gig the first night to go bar-cruising (the oldest band member was 17). I drank waaaaaay more than I could possibly have held at that age and experience - the bartender obviously knew when to cut off the liquor and start selling me fake drinks.
Anyway, in this one bar there was a line of "ladies" sitting in chairs together. The guitar and bass guys paired off with some and headed out the back door. I didn't know what to do, so I didn't do anything. After a while one of them got up and came over, sat down on my lap and put her arms around me and said, "Que fuckee?"
I said yeah. ;)
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Why love God?
by joelbear inshould we love god and have faith in him because we are afraid of being annihilated if we don't?.
should we love god so we can be paid for it by getting a "mansion in the sky" or everlasting life or some other reward payment?
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You're AGuest/Shelby, aren't you, Double Edge.
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Reefer Madness
Attack of the Killer Tomatoes
Mars Needs Women