("They claim to be characterized by love. They are lying.")
Why, SBF, you've unwittingly hit on it!
"They are lying" is the point of the discussion. In fact, that is the point of many of the discussions on here. Your posts often seem to miss the point entirely, but you've captured it here.
Organizationally, when they say they are the sole channel of communication from God, they are lying. When they say disfellowshipping is an act of love, they are lying. When they say they are modeling their religion after the First Century Christians, they are lying.
When you mix political points in with glorying in the virtue of individual JWs who are low on the organizational totem pole as a means of minimizing the damage done to me personally and others personally, my emotional response is to want you to experience firsthand what you speak so glibly about. I don't like wishing that pain on anyone, especially not someone so plainly bereft of knowledge of the subject. Logically, I'd rather you remain ignorant. But when you post such tripe as factual from a position of ignorance my emotional response is rather different.
In this specific case, I was discussing a specific thing they lie about. They lie by calling their use of a "very powerful weapon" of spiritual coercion an act of love.
I asked before, I wonder if you missed it or simply ignored it.
Please answer me this: Do JWs use threat of organizational shunning as a very powerful weapon to coerce conformance, to the end of creating the appearance of unity?
That is the point of the discussion. If this is what JW shunning is really about, then it is purely an act of organizational self-interest, not an act of love.