metatron said:
"They are quite capable of this kind of distortion now . .
The sad thing is that for most of my life as a JW they would write very good articles in the magazines about issues related to family life. If people would apply the counsel their lives would have been enriched. And then with one paragraph or sentence they would put all the good information that witnesses should follow subservient to mandates to attend meetings and going out in service. Sadly too many would only remember that one sentence or paragraph.
Many JWs have lost their sense of balance, their sense of what is truly important. These are the ones that are having problems and this group sadly includes many Elders and COs. Like you I could no longer stand it and resigned from being an Elder. 18 months later I stopped going in service.
With that said, I still dont think that JWs are any worse then the public at large. The sad thing is they no longer meet the ideals that they used to hold so highly.