Posts by THERESA

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ABUSED/HARRASSED

by THERESA in

; my mother is jw i was 15 years old at the time my mom would go house to house with the wife of the brother and my dad went to work sensce the morning to night this happened over the summer (by the way i never was interested in this religion i thought it was boring and i didnt accept alot of things they did) well anyways back to that summer i was at home alone mom with the sister ,dad at work and the husband of the sister hernandez went to my house told me he wanted to read me the bible we sat down on a table we had outside and started to read the bible as he read he pulled out his penis to me i was in shock and scared i ran inside the house locked everydooor when my mom got home i told her what happened and she called me a lier you acusser you have the devil in you those were her words i told my dad he did nothing sensce my mom was very controlling with him, the next several days he would call and harass me and go knock on all the windows of my house when my mom was with his wife, 5 years later i got married and my hubby and i started to study with them there was a part where the brother said that in the jw they wer clean and perfect and that nobody did anything wrong so i brought up the padst and told them my story the did a little investigation and found 5 other girls who by now were now married and they decided to do a little court and the only reason why they didnt df himn was because i could not describe his penis if it was circumsise or not at that time ididnt even know what that was now i do because i have my kids i told myself how could this religion allowed someone like this be teeling the word of god and putting god first and then doing something so terrible!

now my brother is baptised he dont talk to me anymore because i wont forget about the past and i commit to the jw well his lost .

all my life i felt that my mom never loved me.

THERESA

Mommy1 Thats exactly how i feel sometimes all my teenage year till I was 20 I felt sad , alone and I was suicidal too. I allways felt my mom never loved me and I allways asked myself how could she be that way? no my mom leaves in another house than where it happened, thank GOD. There are times that I dont want to see my mom , but then I feel bad because shes old shes 74 yrs and she can only see from one eye she depends on me alot and I have to force myself to not express my feelings or get angry with her because im not going to have her forever and I try to make the best of it and theres days she can really say hurtful things to me and I have to eat it all up and stay quiet.

I m so glad that I found a friend that I can talk to and that understands and believe it can happen without telling me liar or you making a big deal out of it! THERESA

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ABUSED/HARRASSED

by THERESA in

; my mother is jw i was 15 years old at the time my mom would go house to house with the wife of the brother and my dad went to work sensce the morning to night this happened over the summer (by the way i never was interested in this religion i thought it was boring and i didnt accept alot of things they did) well anyways back to that summer i was at home alone mom with the sister ,dad at work and the husband of the sister hernandez went to my house told me he wanted to read me the bible we sat down on a table we had outside and started to read the bible as he read he pulled out his penis to me i was in shock and scared i ran inside the house locked everydooor when my mom got home i told her what happened and she called me a lier you acusser you have the devil in you those were her words i told my dad he did nothing sensce my mom was very controlling with him, the next several days he would call and harass me and go knock on all the windows of my house when my mom was with his wife, 5 years later i got married and my hubby and i started to study with them there was a part where the brother said that in the jw they wer clean and perfect and that nobody did anything wrong so i brought up the padst and told them my story the did a little investigation and found 5 other girls who by now were now married and they decided to do a little court and the only reason why they didnt df himn was because i could not describe his penis if it was circumsise or not at that time ididnt even know what that was now i do because i have my kids i told myself how could this religion allowed someone like this be teeling the word of god and putting god first and then doing something so terrible!

now my brother is baptised he dont talk to me anymore because i wont forget about the past and i commit to the jw well his lost .

all my life i felt that my mom never loved me.

THERESA

Mommy1 I know how you feel my mom would and still up until this point she has had yardsale's

invites them to her house to eat and visite and whats awful is that I leave right in back of her house

and everytime I see her with them my heart brakes! I have asked her how can she be so cruel? And

she tells me your making a big deal of it the past is the past just forget about it, but how can you

forget something like that , something like that never goes away it scars you for life. I have forgive

him for my sake because having all this anger was hurting me more than him he went on like he did

really good! (I GUESS THE JW DONT HAVE A CONSCIENCE) try not to feel bad they are blinded.

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ABUSED/HARRASSED

by THERESA in

; my mother is jw i was 15 years old at the time my mom would go house to house with the wife of the brother and my dad went to work sensce the morning to night this happened over the summer (by the way i never was interested in this religion i thought it was boring and i didnt accept alot of things they did) well anyways back to that summer i was at home alone mom with the sister ,dad at work and the husband of the sister hernandez went to my house told me he wanted to read me the bible we sat down on a table we had outside and started to read the bible as he read he pulled out his penis to me i was in shock and scared i ran inside the house locked everydooor when my mom got home i told her what happened and she called me a lier you acusser you have the devil in you those were her words i told my dad he did nothing sensce my mom was very controlling with him, the next several days he would call and harass me and go knock on all the windows of my house when my mom was with his wife, 5 years later i got married and my hubby and i started to study with them there was a part where the brother said that in the jw they wer clean and perfect and that nobody did anything wrong so i brought up the padst and told them my story the did a little investigation and found 5 other girls who by now were now married and they decided to do a little court and the only reason why they didnt df himn was because i could not describe his penis if it was circumsise or not at that time ididnt even know what that was now i do because i have my kids i told myself how could this religion allowed someone like this be teeling the word of god and putting god first and then doing something so terrible!

now my brother is baptised he dont talk to me anymore because i wont forget about the past and i commit to the jw well his lost .

all my life i felt that my mom never loved me.

THERESA

Crawdad2,Ladylee,mommy1; Thank you so much for writing I felt so relieved that I am not the only one that has gone through this all along my brother & mom allways told me I was making a big deal about it and now that Im the adult I know that its against the law to harass and expose themselfs to someone. With this I stopped my mom from making me mad I told her that if that man would ever come near me again I would press charges. They pretty much have left me alone on the other hand they allways are telling me that; GOD doesnt listen to my prayers because I celebrate holidays and I will get destroyed with armaggedon the great they say armagedon the great is the Catholic and the rest of the religions around the world! I dont believe this at all they are all perfect they say they dont sin or make mistakes they even have people that eat the bread and wine when they have the memorials they say there allowed to eat and drink from them because there the chosen ones one of the 144 thousand and that they dont sin at all because there perfect , I believe nobody is perfect because of adam and eve's sin and because God is so loving and great thats why JESUS gave his life for us, through him we have forgiveness for our sins and his HOLY SPIRIT to help us in life. Well to make this story short it is sad that they are that way like they have no humanity in them , GOD teaches us to love theres even a scripture in the bible love the neighbor and they dont obey it because they critize everyone else and there allways gosoping about every one else and they have hate in that reilgion they shun you and make you feel awful I ve seen it done to others and GOD doesnt want that ! Thanks again hope to hear from you again! THERESA

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ABUSED/HARRASSED

by THERESA in

; my mother is jw i was 15 years old at the time my mom would go house to house with the wife of the brother and my dad went to work sensce the morning to night this happened over the summer (by the way i never was interested in this religion i thought it was boring and i didnt accept alot of things they did) well anyways back to that summer i was at home alone mom with the sister ,dad at work and the husband of the sister hernandez went to my house told me he wanted to read me the bible we sat down on a table we had outside and started to read the bible as he read he pulled out his penis to me i was in shock and scared i ran inside the house locked everydooor when my mom got home i told her what happened and she called me a lier you acusser you have the devil in you those were her words i told my dad he did nothing sensce my mom was very controlling with him, the next several days he would call and harass me and go knock on all the windows of my house when my mom was with his wife, 5 years later i got married and my hubby and i started to study with them there was a part where the brother said that in the jw they wer clean and perfect and that nobody did anything wrong so i brought up the padst and told them my story the did a little investigation and found 5 other girls who by now were now married and they decided to do a little court and the only reason why they didnt df himn was because i could not describe his penis if it was circumsise or not at that time ididnt even know what that was now i do because i have my kids i told myself how could this religion allowed someone like this be teeling the word of god and putting god first and then doing something so terrible!

now my brother is baptised he dont talk to me anymore because i wont forget about the past and i commit to the jw well his lost .

all my life i felt that my mom never loved me.

THERESA

HAS ANYONE BEEN THROUGH THIS?; MY MOTHER IS JW I WAS 15 YEARS OLD AT THE TIME MY MOM WOULD GO HOUSE TO HOUSE WITH THE WIFE OF THE BROTHER AND MY DAD WENT TO WORK SENSCE THE MORNING TO NIGHT THIS HAPPENED OVER THE SUMMER (BY THE WAY I NEVER WAS INTERESTED IN THIS RELIGION I THOUGHT IT WAS BORING AND I DIDNT ACCEPT ALOT OF THINGS THEY DID) WELL ANYWAYS BACK TO THAT SUMMER I WAS AT HOME ALONE MOM WITH THE SISTER ,DAD AT WORK AND THE HUSBAND OF THE SISTER HERNANDEZ WENT TO MY HOUSE TOLD ME HE WANTED TO READ ME THE BIBLE WE SAT DOWN ON A TABLE WE HAD OUTSIDE AND STARTED TO READ THE BIBLE AS HE READ HE PULLED OUT HIS PENIS TO ME I WAS IN SHOCK AND SCARED I RAN INSIDE THE HOUSE LOCKED EVERYDOOOR WHEN MY MOM GOT HOME I TOLD HER WHAT HAPPENED AND SHE CALLED ME A LIER YOU ACUSSER YOU HAVE THE DEVIL IN YOU THOSE WERE HER WORDS I TOLD MY DAD HE DID NOTHING SENSCE MY MOM WAS VERY CONTROLLING WITH HIM, THE NEXT SEVERAL DAYS HE WOULD CALL AND HARASS ME AND GO KNOCK ON ALL THE WINDOWS OF MY HOUSE WHEN MY MOM WAS WITH HIS WIFE, 5 YEARS LATER I GOT MARRIED AND MY HUBBY AND I STARTED TO STUDY WITH THEM THERE WAS A PART WHERE THE BROTHER SAID THAT IN THE JW THEY WER CLEAN AND PERFECT AND THAT NOBODY DID ANYTHING WRONG SO I BROUGHT UP THE PADST AND TOLD THEM MY STORY THE DID A LITTLE INVESTIGATION AND FOUND 5 OTHER GIRLS WHO BY NOW WERE NOW MARRIED AND THEY DECIDED TO DO A LITTLE COURT AND THE ONLY REASON WHY THEY DIDNT DF HIMN WAS BECAUSE I COULD NOT DESCRIBE HIS PENIS IF IT WAS CIRCUMSISE OR NOT AT THAT TIME IDIDNT EVEN KNOW WHAT THAT WAS NOW I DO BECAUSE I HAVE MY KIDS I TOLD MYSELF HOW COULD THIS RELIGION ALLOWED SOMEONE LIKE THIS BE TEELING THE WORD OF GOD AND PUTTING GOD FIRST AND THEN DOING SOMETHING SO TERRIBLE! NOW MY BROTHER IS BAPTISED HE DONT TALK TO ME ANYMORE BECAUSE I WONT FORGET ABOUT THE PAST AND I COMMIT TO THE JW WELL HIS LOST . ALL MY LIFE I FELT THAT MY MOM NEVER LOVED ME. ANYBODY OUT HERE BEEN THROUGH THERE?

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JW Dad talks to me,talks to me not

by mommy1 in

my jw dad calls me every once in awhile and is very friendly.

i have even went to his house for dinner,went shopping with him and his wife.

then months go by and i call he is cold and distant.so i figure he doesn't want a relationship.

THERESA

I TOO HAVE MY BROTHER THAT IS A JEHOVA WITNESS HE NO LONGER COMES TO OUR HOUSE AND VISITES US OR GOES TO THE GET TOGETHERS BECAUSE WE ARE FROM THE WORLD WORLY PEOPLE HE DOESNT LET HIS KIDS PLAY WITH MINE OR THE OTHER I FEEL BAD FOR MY KIDS AND HIS KIDS BECAUSE THEY USED TO BE SO CLOSE NAD SOMETIMES THEY GET SAD , WHEN THEY DONT OBEY THE RULES THEY GET GROUNDED AND HE MAKES THEM READ THERE BIBLE FOR TWO HOURS THERE STEPMOM IS JEHOVA WITNESS TOO IT HURTS ME ALOT TO SEE THAT HE ALSO STOPPED TALKING TO HIS 17 YEAR OLD FROM HIS FIRST MARRAIGE BECAUSE SHE WOULD NOT GET BAPTISTED I FEEL REALLY BAD FOR THEM AND IT BREAKS MY HEART ! WE ALL GREW UP IN THIS CULT BUT RESENTLY HE GOT BAPTISED THIS JUNE AND HE SO DEVOTED AND SO BRAIN WASHED HE LOST COMMUNICATION FROM ME TOO BECAUSE I WOULD NOT GO INTO THE RELIGION , MY MOM I A JW TOO BUT SHE STILL DOES ALOT OF THINGS WITH ME OLY BECAUSE SHE DEPENDS ALOT ON ME I DO ALL HER PAYMENTS , TAKE HER TO THE STORE BECAUSE SHE DONT KNOW HOW TO DRIVE SHE ALLWAYS INSULTS ME TOO OVER THE RELIGION SHE ALLWAYS TELLS ME IM VERY WRONG AND ALLWAYS MAKES ME FEEL BAD , I TRY TO IGNORE EVERYTHING AND OUT OF MY GOOD HEART NO MATTER WHAT SHE IS MY MOTHER AND I KNOW GOD WILL BLESS ME SOME DAY BECAUSE HE THE ONLY ONE THAT KNOWS US INSIDE AND OUT AS FOR MY BROTHER ITS HIS LOST AND I HOPE REALIZE TO LATE IIIIII