My mother has designated my sister as her ‘Designated
Health Care Representative.’ My sister has sworn to my mother that, if my
mother needs blood, my sister will not refuse it. There are no anticipated (key
word) needs for blood at this time. My mother is in her early 80s.
My mother has never been a JW but is very
familiar with all aspects of JWdom and understands the risk of my sister not
allowing blood if my mother needed it. My mother has mitigated this risk by
securing my sister’s sworn promise that she will allow blood if it came to
that.
I mentioned to my mother that my sister’s
promise is subject to change if she is pressured by the elders or whomever.
To be clear, I am not suggesting that my sister
NOT be the ‘Designated Health Care Representative.’ I just don’t believe that,
promise to my mother notwithstanding, my sister will permit blood.
Is anyone aware of a similar situation and, if
so, with what outcome?
Thank you.