.
i found an apparently unbiased report on the un scandal, printed it and gave it to my jw aunt.. since then she has not mentioned it.
odd, if she thinks she's right about something she never hesitates to tell me in detail.. maybe i scored a point.. ?
Congratulations! Sounds like you just planted a seed and it is taking root!
Let's hear it for Osmosis! (clap, clap, clap)
By the way, I would love to have a copy of that article. Where can I get it?
And if any one out there would like to make sure one of their JW relatives or friends receives something like that, but would like it mailed anonymously from a different state, I live in Indiana and I would be happy to do that for you! Can't be blamed on you that way.
gotta love it.....
prince, the pint-sized pop star, is paying a whopping.
$70,000 monthly to rent a hollywood hills mansion.. and he apparently thought that hefty sum allowed him.
Maybe there has been some more of that "new-old-light" from the GB and they need a fancy place for Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob to stay! (I knew it was a mistake to sell off Beth Sharim so soon!)
today, i talked to my mom.
my mom said that how my brother doesn't want me to be the best man at his wedding because, according to her words, "i don't respect the institution of marriage nor the creator of marriage, jehovah god and i might introduce the demons to the wedding ceremony".
she based her opinion of me not "respecting the institution of marriage" on me, well, i won't go into it on the board.
Tell your brother not to worry!
The pagan practices they will take part in at their wedding should cover their protection from demons! Allow me to elaborate:
1.) If the bride wears a veil---used in other cultures as protection from evil spirits.
2.) The bridal party---evolved from Roman tradition, in which the bridesmaids and ushers dressed like the bride and groom in order to confuse the evil spirits.
3.) The wedding ring---another ancient Roman custom. (Which is mentioned in one of the older WTS books, by the way!)
4.) Wedding cake----in Roman tradition was first offered to the gods, then ate together by the couple.
Their wedding will be so rooted in pagan idolatry, YOU will be the least of their worries! :0) (Maybe it is best if YOU are not there, in order to protect yourself.)
In all seriousness, sorry to hear that your brother feels that way. One day he will look back and regret that you weren't a part of his special day. My heart goes out to him as much as it does to you. Poor guy just doesn't know the mistake he's making.
Their teeth.
I tend to watch people's mouths when they talk, so I notice their teeth.
yesterday, i was having a horrible day....(some of you may know).
well i was given the 2 hour long conversation on "how i am a evil unacceptable person".
as in my last thread, i stated that my sister went threw my house and found pictures of my children in their halloween costumes.
Re-read the description you gave about your children. (Happy, funny, etc...)
Does that sound like the description of children who have a lousy Mother?
Have you ever noticed that when someone attacks you, they will hit you where they know it will hurt you the most?
For someone who is so worried about the demonism of Halloween, your sister should look for the source of demonism within her that would have her say such a horrible thing to her own sister.
That must be more of that exclusive Jehovah's Witness "love" we hear so much about. She's to be pitied.
Keep being a wonderful Mother and don't let this get you down. When someone can't manipulate you with guilt, they often times will try to cut you off at the knees in some other way. Recognize it for what it is, and let it roll off. You don't need her validation about your parenting abilities. You can see it in the way your children behave!
we have a kind considerate and loving individual who needs our support and love.. this is someone who has posted helpful information, encouraging words and shared himself with us when we needed it.
i'm talking about our good friend auld soul.
as has been going through some tough times lately.
Auld Soul,
It is important for you to know how helpful you have been. Through your pain and trials you have helped many others. You helped me more than you can ever imagine.
It is nearly impossible for me to express exactly how much I appreciate your posts and how inspiring you have been. You care for others and it shows. And that makes the rest of us care MORE!
Thank you for all that you have done. I will be praying for you and I hope that you will see that we love and care very deeply for you and that you are valued more than you can comprehend.
Sometimes you can get a little burnt out and discouraged, and maybe you need to take a break and go do something you enjoy. Something to take your mind off of the JW issues for awhile. I get a little overwhelmed at times, so I go out and brush my horses and sink my nose in their manes.. I love the smell of them and that just eases my mind so much. Balance is important. Sometimes your heart and mind become weary from trying to save the world. That's Jesus' deal. He's great at it! Just do what you can when you feel up to it, and spend some time enjoying the blessings of life.
And don't forget that you are a blessing to US! Take care of yourself and if you need prayer in a specific area, don't hesitate to let me know!
In Christ's Love,
Jeri (aka "whyizit")
after starting a thread yesterday and taking in the various responses i feel i should set the record straight on a couple of things.over the last couple of days aswell as here i have joined jwo and slippys too.im not a troll but im not a board virgin either.these three particular sites have been mentioned to me (not quite recommended)by an ex-witness, so i thought id have a look see for myself.
it feels like i know several characters already very well (having had indepth conversations about them)but im very suprised at the size of the community you have here.i was raised a witness but never baptised.family still all are and in fairness treat me very well as do members of my old congregation when i bump into them.i guess thats enough for now,cant be giving too much away this is the internet after all.
btw..at times i realise i am not the best speller in the world(i struggled all the way through school),but to those people who replied to my thread just to point that out..bite me!your no different than the the type of elder who completely missed the point of how hard it was being a young jw but still took great pleasure in telling you how sports socks were not appropriate attire for the meetings.sheesh.
I cain't beleeve anywon wood bich abowt spellin, in vue uv the reel problems that r addressed on this forum!
Welcome to JWD!
my husband and i have not been to meetings for several years now.
we have finally had our first child after 13 years of marriage.
he is now 5 months old.
One more thing: Maybe you could ask her to show you from the BIBLE ONLY, proof that what she is telling you is true. Where does Jehovah specifically say that IN THE BIBLE? Don't bring any other literature, ONLY THE BIBLE. Show me that what you are saying is true from the BIBLE, and I'll think about it.
my husband and i have not been to meetings for several years now.
we have finally had our first child after 13 years of marriage.
he is now 5 months old.
My Aunt was similar--though not a JW. My Dad used to say, "I know she is a little extreme, but she means well."
Just remember, this lady is terrified for your child. She is obviously in a panic. She is also on the verge of going off the deep end, from the way it appears. Don't be surprised if a breakdown occurs.
Maybe you could send a letter back to her, being as kind as possible. That you appreciate her concern, but that this is a matter between you and your husband. Maybe you could ask how it came to be that she feels she has the authority to send you such a letter asking these questions? Have they changed the rules on women becoming elders?
Tell her that you love her, but that this matter is personal and does not involve her input.
Express concern about her mental stability and tell her that you will pray for her.
If she continues to harrass you, and you perceive to be a threat, I agree with the others that you should consider taking legal action. Your first concern is your child. You just don't know what someone in that state of mind will do. Aggitating or arguing with her may not be the best thing. Try to be kind, but firm. POlitely let her know that it is none of her business.
dear all,.
i thought i'd best make a new thread rather than add my message to the vigil thread, for example, as it might not otherwise get noticed.. yesterday afternoon i was allowed home from the hospital - but only until wednesday morning!
as many of you will know, i have been in christie cancer hospital in manchester, england, ready to undergo a stem cell transplant (in my case, stem cells taken from my blood to be returned later).
MANY, MANY prayers going up for you from our house!
