There's your problem. Treat them like people, instead.Google:
"nice guys" site:heartless-bitches.com.
Read. Learn.
LOL! o.k, o.k I'll learn.
jojochan.
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if you're single, what behavior(s) or actions by your partner would cause you to end a relationship, other than infidelity?
if you're married, what behavior(s) or actions by your spouse would cause you to seek a divorce, other than infidelity?
There's your problem. Treat them like people, instead.Google:
"nice guys" site:heartless-bitches.com.
Read. Learn.
LOL! o.k, o.k I'll learn.
jojochan.
i'm not sure whether there is a god or not.
so far as i can tell, there isn't much evidence to support his existence... .
but sometimes i find myself in what appears to be a prayer.
The one time that prayed , was when I was having relations with my ex wife," Please god....just a little while longer...that's all I ask....please god?...god?"
Sorry...I just had coffe, and I'll stop being stupid. Please forgive my assinine post.
jojochan.
it's really good to read stories of other people that have experienced some of the same things i have.
i haven't ever posted or even talked to another ex-jw except for my uncle who i have just recently started a relationship with.
the sad thing is that i am 30 years old and i am still struggling with the past....i'm soo sick of it.
(((beachbugg))) Welcome to the forum!
Sometimes my husband gets upset because my nature is to be very private...I call it private, he calls it secretive. Anyways, I guess it's just a long
I understand this so well...This comes from our being in the cult, and us sick of them being in our private affairs, so we end up developing an overdeveloped sense of privacy. Which IS hard for those on the outside to understand since they see it as just a religion. Yes, it is a long process, a long journey indeed, but in the end he'll understand. Please stick around for ahwhile; hey, the experiences here have helped me, and the support here is great.
You'll find that out too as well. You're not alone.
jojochan.
Hmm...nice thought of the day.
jojochan.
so there i was... (i've always wanted to start a story with that line) .
i'm sitting here taking a look at the posts on jwd when i start to hear a commotion coming from the direction of the cats' litter box.
i look and one of my cats is jumping and flailing around... sometimes stopping to drag its ass across the floor... with cat crap dragging behind it.
I'm thinking the cat managed to get some strange worm parasite but before I can get to the cat it darts out of the room and drags the "string of pearls" behind it leaving bits and pieces EVERYWHERE it goes.
LOLat elsewhere! For a minute there I thought it had ate those sex toy beads.
That gave me the laugh of the day.
jojochan.
We all get heavier as we get older because there's a lot more information in our heads. So I'm not fat, I'm just really intelligent and my head couldn't hold any more so it started filling up the rest of me!
In spots where it counts I'm sure right? lol.
jojochan.
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if you're single, what behavior(s) or actions by your partner would cause you to end a relationship, other than infidelity?
if you're married, what behavior(s) or actions by your spouse would cause you to seek a divorce, other than infidelity?
abuse....after i whoop his ass of course.
...i must worship you........please?
jojochan.
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if you're single, what behavior(s) or actions by your partner would cause you to end a relationship, other than infidelity?
if you're married, what behavior(s) or actions by your spouse would cause you to seek a divorce, other than infidelity?
i keep letting girls take advantage of me... like i do everything for them, treat them like little princesses, and they treat me like a big bowl of shit... they take advantage of me, and then dont realize ewhat they had until its too late... then we break up and within a week theyre always begging to have me back... lol, i guess justnot being appreciated makes me want out... especially since i deserve to be appreciated...
EXACTLY!!!! PREACH BROTHA PREACH!! TESTIFY!!
jojochan.
it really bothers me how jw's (and other religious people) refer to gods 'perfect' creation.
- genesis, "and god saw that it was good"
at the same time they blame imperfect, sinful, wicked humans & a devil for all the suffering that is going on in the world.
It struck me when the tsunami hit and hundreds of thousands of lives were violently & horribly ended,............. gods 'perfect' creation never got the blame. In fact volcanoes, mud slides, violent weather, etc, etc have taken the lives of millions of people over the years. Yet god remains 'blame free'????
It struck me as well. To those in the collective it was sign that god was needed to step in and intervene, but wait!... He's holding back so that he could prove a point and to let more "sheeplike" ones into the fold.
That's their reason?
That does'nt satisfy me at all.
jojochan.
poor thing...now he's at rest - cousin lee.
i will always miss and love you.
i wish i could have helped you.
(((((TresHappy))))
jojochan.