i've heard of men over the years complain about crazy chicks, but they don't always explain.
so here's the chance:.
what makes a girl/women crazy or psycho in your eyes?
With a question like that it's like asking why is water wet? Why is the sky blue?
I wish I knew. IMO it depends on the girl, and what position she's put under that would drive her crazy.
"How many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie pop?...the world may never know."
eh heh?
i know this is either going to be one of those topics where people consider it a popularity contest or something....i'm just being an imp and seeing if anyone will be forward enough to tell about the person that they would like to date.. me, i'm married so that leaves me out!
but i have seen a lot of beefcakes on here!
JoJoChan, you're just a pure horndog! (rubbing feet?)
Now I KNOW you being a fine seasoned lady appreciates a nice pleasant foot rub at an end of a busy, hustling day
I have been trained well.
jojochan.
eh heh?
i know this is either going to be one of those topics where people consider it a popularity contest or something....i'm just being an imp and seeing if anyone will be forward enough to tell about the person that they would like to date.. me, i'm married so that leaves me out!
but i have seen a lot of beefcakes on here!
~Brigid p.s. Jojochan gets added as well (cute, sensitive~you know he kills with the ladies in real life!)
Oh...if only you knew..I would SO totally give you, whyamihere Ldh and sparkplug total foot worship " There's too many to name...how could I forget about crumpet? I NEVER recieved a complaint in the foot pleasuring department. jojochan...the footsmith.
eh heh?
i know this is either going to be one of those topics where people consider it a popularity contest or something....i'm just being an imp and seeing if anyone will be forward enough to tell about the person that they would like to date.. me, i'm married so that leaves me out!
but i have seen a lot of beefcakes on here!
DAMN!! ...jojochan approves of this topic.
every once in a while, the whole "futility of life" thing washes over me and something inside of me mentions the suicide option.
not that it's ever seriously considered, but one of the low-level accounting-types in my head quietly sends around a "worst-case scenario" memo that everyone reads, then dismisses.. after all, things always perk up.
"but," reminds the pessimistic little guy that should've been fired years ago, "they always go back down, too.
I can't stop watching 24, I want to see what Jack Bauer does next. XD!!!
But really, There ARE times that I just don't see the point of going on anymore. I get those feelings from time to time. But to answer your question...I don't know, maybe hope? Hope that one day I would find what it is that I'm looking for.
Then I'll be content. I'll be at peace.
jojochan.
this photo (taken from a jw group on aol) is quite typical of jw marriage matches.
don't get me wrong, i'm sure they are great people as far as jws go.
but, it made me think.
but you have to leave that crap behind. Real love and trust and honesty and inner beauty was something I found outside the organisation.
Ballistic, I feel that I did. And I have moved on, it's just that topics like this brings it all back to me. Which I don't mind...I personally feel that I'm stronger as a person now that I've faced it and talked about it. I realized that it was all lies.Now I can move on...and live.
I feel for those that gave TEN plus years of their life to a lie.
jojochan.
i thought this might be interesting.
if it's been talked about before, i apologize in advance.
what differences do you think exist between the two?
Technically I am one....deep inside I don't know...
I know that the religion does'nt cut it for me anymore I've seen too much and read too much that supports this. Plus when I took a good long look around me when I was at the end of my "rope" when it came to believing the dogma all I saw were sheep. Sheep with bored looks, glazed looks in their eyes. The contradictions, the prejudiced teachings when dealing with people that are different when it came to religious veiwpoints. Really got me wondering...
Was it this god wanted? Was it THIS Jesus wanted?
I personally feel that I'm not an apologist, but in their eyes I'm considered a fence sitter.
If only they knew I'd be more than happy to D.A myself. But to me that woud be empowering them, and I'm done giving them power since that organization had that power over me since I was born. Plus I have family that are deeply rooted in this dogma. They think that I'm depressed over what happended to me in my life.
What can I say...I have a sick, overdeveloped sense of honor when it comes to saving the face of my family. But I know that I have to live my life for me. And I know that time will come when I will be able to escape that nut religion. But It would take longer to give myself a cerebral enima to flush the gunk that's so deeply embedded in my mind.
So I guess for now I'm an "X" for unknown in my spiritual destination. It's like I know where I want to go, it's just when? I don't know.
jojochan.
this photo (taken from a jw group on aol) is quite typical of jw marriage matches.
don't get me wrong, i'm sure they are great people as far as jws go.
but, it made me think.
Joining the cult was bad enough, but marrying a JW was the most self-destructive decision I ever made in my life.
It feels worse when you're BORN into it.
I think they rip you off in how to go about solving problems within the religion. Now more than ever couples in my area are suffering in the marriage department. They run to the elders for answers and what do they get?....
xeroxed copies of a W.T article from the early 90's on having a successful marraige.
I know this because it was done to me. And they did'nt even read the article before discussing it with me and my wife.Right then and there I know that it was all bullshit...all of it.In my opinion it takes more than bible flipping and being counseled on when to render your "due". Especially when SHE did'nt want to work it out as well. We were not having sex because she was f@cking someone else while complaining that I was "Too Big"(wtf?!) Yeah, but while I enjoyed the compliment deep down inside I knew that she was letting another man inside of her. I felt like less of a man. And when I explained this to the brothers....all they did was this......and tried to show me a scripture of comfort.
In the collective you're being told and shown an unrealistic view of what marriage is. This is'nt Leave it to Beaver....this is the 21st century.
Those that live in the jw box that are newly married are just that; in a box. Living in a house of lies like I did.
cheers
jojochan, the bastard.
i was reading another thread that asked, "do you see yourself remarrying?
" i noticed some of the replies mentioned that getting involved with another xjw would be interesting.
i have thought that also.
Aude:
currently healing from motorcycle accident )
(((Aude))) Hope you're healing well...
jojochan.
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given your past life experiences and your current enlightenment would you ever get into that level of commitment again?.
cab
Well....let's see......
At first glance I was about to say no....but then there's that part of me that loved being married, that loved the idea of you and the "better half" of you against the forces of evil (lol) working together, loving together, growing old together. I wanted what my parents have. Even though they went through some rough and tough sh*t. 34 years! I could'nt imagine what it's like to be with someone that long. I envied that about them.
I once said to myself that I would never put myself in that situation, since being married to a dub too. But then that part of me feels that I would get f@cked just the same on the outside.
damned if you do or don't; right? To answer your question though....
I don't know.
LOL at rodbar,
I was starting to feel like I was surrounded by swollen, walking, lying, penises so I've dropped out of the dating scene.
. You just HAD to put swollen there in that context right?
jojochan.
