heres the situation.... met a girl i am tottally infatuated with.
i could just hang out with her and not have sex but she has not been in a relationship in a year and shes pretty horny.
im a normal dude so i dont want to refuse her.. i cant decide if im rationalizing my feelings.
streets76 Whats the deal dude? Are you ok? Do you need to vent about something? Take the time to read everything I wrote. You show me where my reasoning is off? Im always open to change. Im past hooking up. I want something real. I want to do everything right by all involved. Its called love. Im not some ignorant virgin. I was in the military for 10 years. We like our women!
Sorry, friggin, I have to skim here at work. My bad.
i wanted to make a few comments to those of you that have recently begun to question or have already left the wt and made their way onto this site.
this site is a great resource to learn how others are coping with leaving the organization and moving on into a fulfilling life.. i wanted to write this post because i think reading something like this would've been helpful to me to understand where a lot of people that comment on this site are coming from.
you are going to hear from a wide range of people that have moved on to a diverse range of beliefs.
The Bible is an all or nothing book
Yeah, I like the part where I can own unlimited slaves and concubines. Unfortunately, the local authorites see it otherwise.
heres the situation.... met a girl i am tottally infatuated with.
i could just hang out with her and not have sex but she has not been in a relationship in a year and shes pretty horny.
im a normal dude so i dont want to refuse her.. i cant decide if im rationalizing my feelings.
... and if you've never had head before, well, hold on to your hat, boy, hold on to your hat.
heres the situation.... met a girl i am tottally infatuated with.
i could just hang out with her and not have sex but she has not been in a relationship in a year and shes pretty horny.
im a normal dude so i dont want to refuse her.. i cant decide if im rationalizing my feelings.
friggin, I say this meaning nothing personal (as I don't know you personally), but having sex with this girl (or any girl) might just be the slap right upside your stupid head that you've been needing.
care to share your particular weltanschauung ?.
how do you approach life in general?
how do you convey to others your opines on life, love and laughter?.
I am a human, with a lower case h, and like Groucho Marx, don't want to join any other clubs that would have me.
i wanted to make a few comments to those of you that have recently begun to question or have already left the wt and made their way onto this site.
this site is a great resource to learn how others are coping with leaving the organization and moving on into a fulfilling life.. i wanted to write this post because i think reading something like this would've been helpful to me to understand where a lot of people that comment on this site are coming from.
you are going to hear from a wide range of people that have moved on to a diverse range of beliefs.
I was gonna say that Christianity is the Special Olympics of religion, but I don't really know enough about other religions to make that judgement. I'll have to get back to you on that.
my lord spoke to me for the first time yesterday and this morning he told me to post my experience.. i know there are going to be ones who will call me names and thats ok. i will accept whatever you feel you need to say.. here goes.
i heard a voice calling ''my child'', this happened while at the zoo so i was taken off guard!
i replied ''who is this?
Did he have any stock tips?
i find the topic of the 1975 end of the world scenario facinating, especially since i never lived through it.
do you old schoolers ever feel concerned that people will one day forget about what really went down?
with whitewashed tripe like the 'proclaimers' book informing dubs that it was just the false expectations of over enthusiastic apostates, are you at all concerned that the legacy of bullshit that is 1975 will be a forgotten moment in history blamed on you instead where the blame really belongs?
I was a young teen in '75. My only concern was, would the big A come before I could ever get laid? (This was back in the days before girls was so easy.)
Eventually, I got laid. But I bet Fred Frazn never did.
how do you deal with the thought of god after leaving the wts ?.
i left two years ago, and i have always had a certain amount or "need" for a spiritual side of my life.. growing up catholic was good, when my parents became jw's suddenly everything/religion that was not bound together with the.
wt society and their teachings was completley wrong.. so now that i have left, i have a hard time trying to understand different religions.
Podobear, I'm saying drop the quest for spirituality, it's a fool's errand. "Spirit" is an out-dated concept, mojo voodoo. Celebrate your humanity. You are human. Be kind to other humans (and animals, while you're at it).
as an elder of many years, i was continually struck with the abundance of chronically ill witnesses whose disease appeared to be related to their own stress at trying to meet the endless demands of the "truth".
i am not a medical professional but i don't need to be a doctor to know that the depression and virtual self loathing ('i'm not good enough, i must do more, i'm a bad parent....") sets a stage for ill health.. and now science backs up that conclusion:.
http://www.amazon.com/when-body-says-understanding-stress-disease/dp/0471219827.
As a child, I remember a married sister (husband was an elder), mother of two, giving a talk on the Ministry School one Thursday night. She literally had a nervous breakdown right there on the platform. "I just can't do this," she finally said, and left the platform. No one batted an eye. The show must go on. All these years later, that sister (quite elderly now), is still in the borg, still waiting on Jehovah.
My brother married a girl whose family was strong in the borg. The whole lot of them were bonkers. If they weren't on their meds they were bouncing off the walls.
I don't think I ever knew one single "normal" Witness, and only one or two that were genuine Christians.
Living a double life was the only thing that saved me.
[I should change my user name to Holden Caulfield.]
