Great question. Thoughtful responses.
I was born in. Respected my elders, literal and figurative. But my gut feeling from early on was always, "something is not right."
I always assumed the problem (my inability to accept the Truth and be happy) was me, my own sinful nature and desires.
Crisis of Conscience showed me the problem was elsewhere.
I now know that my nature and desires are not sinful -- they are merely human.
Trust your gut.