Posts by collegegirl21

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The love of your life "cheats" on you....could you forgive?

by new boy in

the old age question............ say, your "soul mate" the love of your life, goes on a trip with some friends.........something happens one night...... they have sex with a stranger( or even a friend)............they come home and tell you what they did............they still love you.. what would you do?...............is the marriage over?

or what?.

nb .

collegegirl21

I am happy someone brought this question up, because my boyfriend and I got into a huge fight and he kissed another girl (a girl who he grew up with and she also confessed she liked him). He said that he told her he only wanted to be with me and ever since that happened I am having a hard time trusting whenever she is around him.

He said that she understands they are just friends, but she has been in his life forever and she's pretty much staying there... I want to be with him, but I do have a trust issue and I just really don't know what to do.

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What makes a truly great kiss?

by nicolaou in

now i'm not going all girly or anything but kissing is still great!

if my wife is, for example, preparing a meal i might be able to kiss her on the side of the neck while she's peeling the potato's.

i know what you're thinking, 'that nic's a smooth ol' romatic operator'!.

collegegirl21

A truly great kiss to me is feeling the passion in the kiss, knowing that at that moment that person is only thinking about kissing you and feeling your lips and you are thinking about the same thng. To me, its feeling that feeling while you are kissing.

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As of Thursday night I am no longer a Jehovahs Witness

by Es in

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friends

yep my fade has come to a stop, got the phone call off my dad today he asked me if i celebrate christmas and birthdays and i said yes, and so he said they are going to go ahead with the disassociation letter i sent over two years ago!!!!..

he said that after today the only phone calls i will get are if there is an emergency, but nothing social my response to that was well you havnt seen or spoken to me for over a year im used to it.. he also said there was no bad feelings and that i should never doubt there love for me, and that the stupid thing of it is they can associate with mike and the kids just not me.. im really happy and calm about it, ive had my initial cry over it, and now i feel good that i dont have to lie and hide things anymore.. its such a relief.. luv ya all.

es.

collegegirl21

That is awesome Es. I wish I had balls like you. I am too afraid to lose my parents. My dad had a heart attack when I was disassociated before and that killed me that I couldn't talk to people when I went to visit him in the hospital, I could barely talk to him. It killed me. So I got reinstated and I just want to move away and fade, I have been slowly making excuses not to go to the meetings though, so we'll see.

I am happy for you though! You have given me motivation

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My Aunt Tells My Mom I NEED To Get Back In Before It's Too Late!

by minimus in

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friends

she told her yesterday that i must take advantage of armageddon not being here before it's too late.

i guess she must be worried, huh?.

collegegirl21

My mom told me I had one foot in the door with Jehovah and the other one with Satan and she said that with the time being "sooooo close" that I need to make up my mind because Jehovah isn't going to wait on me forever.... bah humbug!

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hello...i've had enough

by GoTan in

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friends

i hope this finds everyone well.

i feel like i am doing something wrong but i really don't care anymore, i've had enough.

i am 4th generation, born 22 years ago and raised a witness and need out.

collegegirl21

Welcome! I know how you feel about losing your family. I am deeply scared of actually leaving too and my parents are starting to give me ultimadums and that is just driving me insane. I moved home to help out, but I cannot take it anymore. I am slowly starting to fall apart again and that isn't healthy for me at all.

If you ever need to talk, I am in college right now and I bet I can relate to some of the stuff that you are going through.

~CG 21

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March AWAKE

by mouthy in

just had a call from a jw undercover.... says the march awake is teaching the question on sex again "what young people ask" telling them about hooking up!!!!

i am begining to think that maybe those up in the writing department must get horny while writng all this stuff -the lad that called says he gets horny reading it.

pity!!!!

collegegirl21

I think its interesting how its all about the youth and pre-marital sex. What about the elders who are doing it behind everyone's back? I think we should do a "Elders People Ask... " article about that.

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Why Can You See Through the Watchtower While Others Cannot?

by The wanderer in

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why can you see through the watchtower while others cannot?

compared with the six million jehovahs witnesses worldwide the .

so-called apostates are comparatively much smaller.

collegegirl21

My parents didn't come in contact with the religion until I was 8. They didn't really do much until my grandma died of a blood transfusion. My mom and her were really close, and I think at that time that my mom looked for something to fill that void of losing her mother. With her having a bible study, I think the lady stressed how they didn't approve of blood transfusions, so my mom grasped on to this and ever since they've been controlling and my life has been hell. But I am slowly getting out of it, it will come soon enough.

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Watchtower misquotes really make me mad !

by BluesBrother in

the feb 1st wt has a banner headline on the cover "must we always tell the truth" - inside it says (p1) "' i hate lies and i hate being lied to" exclaimed a 16 year old girl" ... so , o.k.

we must expect that anyone printing such things must themselves be absolutely honest and truthful .. so why do they use misleading quotations that are, practice, nothing short of lies?

many have been documented but this one came my way recently while using another thread .. the book "let your kingdom come" has an appendix dealing with babylonian and jewish chronology .

collegegirl21

I would really like to get my hand on the misquotes... I'm sure there are a ton of websites that have the misquotes. If anyone knows of any, please let me know. Thank you!

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My boyfriend left me for someone else yesterday.......

by kittyeatzjdubs in

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yep....'tis true....she's more entertaining, better looking, and apparently provides hours of ''fun activities''.

sometimes they get together with her one of her friends and play well into the night.... her name?.

.. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. xbox 360 and her friend gears of war.. lol...he got the gow game yesterday and stayed up till past midnight playing.

collegegirl21

Lol... you seriously had me worried young lady... I thought I was going to have to come down there and have one of our "special" nights together .

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College...(don't tell the elders)

by SB in

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hey all, i'm new to the board, and happy to have found it.

i'm going to college for the first time (i'm 25 yrs old).

does anyone have any advice on how to handle the challenge?

collegegirl21

Welcome to the board. I am in college right now. I actually recently just moved back in with my parents, so I am working full time, going to their meetings and I am going to school full time. Its hard, but if you take one day at a time you will get through it. If you need to talk, I am here and I can definitely relate. I was on my own for 5 years before moving back in with my parents, my dad is sick again, and I hate being home and cannot wait to get my own place in their town in May, but that's besides the point.

If you need anyone to talk to or relate with, a lot of us are here to listen. Again... Welcome!