(((hugs)))) Can you PM me where you live and I will help you search for services that help with babysitting? I knwo what you're going through with the whole job thing, I just got a job after being unemployed for 2 months. I had to make arrangements with my apt complex to pay them late and in payment plans. PM me if you need to talk or vent or anything. I am here for you!!!!! Again, I am so sorry!!!!
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I need help, friendly suggestions, or a shoulder to cry on...
by FreedomFrog inok, here's the situation.. i have no friends that live close to me and i'm up to my eyeballs in bills.
i have applied to a few jobs that could potentially help me turn things around.
the things is, because i don't have parents/friends or any other people in my life.... 1. how do i get a babysitter when i have to go on the interviews?.
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Active Elders who post on JWD
by Honesty indoes your conscience torment you knowing that you are misleading the flock of god as you continue teaching them the heresies of the watchtower society?.
why are you staying in the organization and posting here at the same time?.
do you really believe that you can help your families to reject the watchtower society while remaining an elder and visibly appearing to support their lies and false teachings?.
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Willyloman, nvr, gary and open mind,
I couldn't agree more. If it weren't for people who were elders or people who were fading on this site, then I don't think I would've been able to pull through. And I think we all appreciate the "inside" information that they give us especially when we find things out before the people who are in the religion.
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My hubby just laid down some rules to my elder dad
by Es inrecently an elder called mike's mob phone wanting to speak to me, the only person who could have passed on that info was my elder dad.
mike has been waiting for my dad to call him to arrange to see the kids, as he wont deal with me at all.
so mike said to him i dont appreciate you giving our number out to the elders, we want nothing to do with them or your religion etc... mike than called me and said there was so much more i wanted to tell him.. i get a phone call about 30 mins later, mike had rang my dad and said if you want to see your grandkids then there are a few rules you will need to follow, 1. dont ever give out our personal details (which my dad apologised for and acknowldeged that he shouldnt have done that ) and 2. if you want to see your grandkids you need to speak to your daughter, you can msg her phone or even speak to her.
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collegegirl21
Well if your dad wants to see kids bad enough he will call you!! Good job Mike!
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My hubby just laid down some rules to my elder dad
by Es inrecently an elder called mike's mob phone wanting to speak to me, the only person who could have passed on that info was my elder dad.
mike has been waiting for my dad to call him to arrange to see the kids, as he wont deal with me at all.
so mike said to him i dont appreciate you giving our number out to the elders, we want nothing to do with them or your religion etc... mike than called me and said there was so much more i wanted to tell him.. i get a phone call about 30 mins later, mike had rang my dad and said if you want to see your grandkids then there are a few rules you will need to follow, 1. dont ever give out our personal details (which my dad apologised for and acknowldeged that he shouldnt have done that ) and 2. if you want to see your grandkids you need to speak to your daughter, you can msg her phone or even speak to her.
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That is awesome! Do you think you'll hear from your dad at all?
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COLLEGE IS EVIL!!!!!
by why??? inhi everyone...this year i had to go to the district convention and with my newly opened mind...i sat there rolling my eyes the whole time...i was however very distrubed by a talk on higher education...im sure you all know of it...basically telling all of us outright that it was no good and we shouldnt be going...now i know they have done it in the past...but it seemed so blatant this year in your face...college is evil.....here's a related link .
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7vxnzoeeys&mode=related&search= .
hopefully the links work ..im not really sure how to do it .......
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Just listening to that makes me sick. I can't wait to hear that from my parents after they hear it this weekend!!! I hope its not on Sunday or else I'm sure all the people in my parent's congregation will be looking at me and pointing their dirty little fingers. How rude for them to say that when you need some sort of schooling in the world we are living in now to survive. Oh that's right... they only want people who don't learn how to think for themselves - so when college encourages you to research and learn things on your own... that is freaken frowned upon. Ridiculous!
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How much BS can you feed one person?
by collegegirl21 inmy mother and i had a small conversation about them changing to just having one public watchtower.
i asked her why she thought they would do this.
and here is our conversation:.
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Thank you steve for those kind words. I've been sort of going to a quarter life crisis and I needed what you said and it meant a lot. Thank you!
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How much BS can you feed one person?
by collegegirl21 inmy mother and i had a small conversation about them changing to just having one public watchtower.
i asked her why she thought they would do this.
and here is our conversation:.
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Lol, yeah, I don't want to ruin either relationships with my parents. That's why I'm not ready to say anything because my parents aren't your typical JW's. They are beyond - I can't even describe what they are. But that's why I don't want to screw anything up.
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For Those That Married JW, Did You Have Sex Before Your Wedding?
by Good Girl or Bad Girl? ini'm sure this has been covered before.
i'm wondering, though, how many who got married as a jehovah's witness actually waited for their wedding day?
it's for a "good cause," namely my peace of mind.
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I'm not married, but when I was in the religion all of my friends when I was younger (ages from 14 -17) humped. It was what we did and everyone covered everyone's ass until someone got caught. I don't know how many times my friends and I were reproved publicly and privately.
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How much BS can you feed one person?
by collegegirl21 inmy mother and i had a small conversation about them changing to just having one public watchtower.
i asked her why she thought they would do this.
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I know what you mean!!! I'm just taking it one day at a time. My parents get their daily dose of BS - but its just ridiculous!!!! How naive can one be? I mean, its so clear to me, but I don't understand how they are so blinded!