AudeSapere

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  How Did You Deal With God Destroying Non-Witness Relatives that You Loved?

  by DNCall in

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  2. friends

  startfragment.

  so many of my non-witness relatives were, and are, good people.

  i had to do something to deal with the likelihood of their being destroyed.. those i was close to in the faith, and i, had the hope that, sometime before the end, some issue would arise that would wake up our relatives and other loved ones to the realization that they had to come into the fold.

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  There were a few that I/we just knew had such a good heart. It was unfathomable that they would die at Armageddon. So I/we would try to reason with them to join the JW's. We would also try to win them without a word by our actions - and worked real hard to not let them about our 'secret sins', cracks in our faith, or the fact that home life was less-than-perfect.

  For some, I/we hoped that they would die soon - so they could be resurrected in the New System and see that we had the truth afterall.

  How sick for anyone to think like that. Such isolation from family and friends and thinking that dying young is a good thing.

  -Aude.
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  Apostate jokes:

  by SixofNine in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  an ex-jw walks into a bar and orders three mugs of bud.

  he sits in the back of the room, drinking a sip out of each one in turn.

  when he finishes them, he comes back to the bar and orders three more.. the bartender approaches and tells the ex-jw, "you know, a mug goes flat after i draw it.

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  Funny!
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  Should I date her?

  by Iamallcool in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i just met a lady that is just okay looking and she has a female relative that is a very hot celebrity.

  i would love to meet her thru her.

  am i that bad?

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  I need help! i am in social limbo!

  by Free!! in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i was wondering if some of you can give me some advice in how to get over the fact that i feel so inadequate when trying to make new friends!!

  since i left the borg i have only made about 2-3 close friends... the wts ruined my social skills and i am so depressed because i am afraid of the real world... i know i am ready to move on... but i dont know how.. i feel like i dont belong in there but i dont belong out here either... i am in social limbo.. and it sucks to have no friends.. .

  when i was in i hated the weekends because i was basically forced to go to service, now i hate the weekends because if the few friends i have are busy w their families or partners i am stuck all by myself... :( please give me some pointers i feel super lonely!

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  Use your dog as an ice breaker. People who have pets - especially dogs - love to talk about them. Take your dog hiking and on walks. Stop to talk to people who are outside. Take your dog to a dog park. Take your dog to the local coffee shop and sit outside for a while. Talk to people who stop to pet your dog.

  It's just little social banter, but could lead to more. As you talk to people, start getting more involved in your community.

  It's a start.

  -Aude.
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  just created a site www.jwfacts.com

  by jwfacts in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i just put together a site that tries to logically show the witnesses are not the true religion.

  just wondering how to get the information out to people that most need it.

  also any ideas on how to get the site found by search engines.

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  Happy 6th Anniversary, jwfacts.com~!

  -Aude Sapere (meaning: Dare to Know; Dare to Have Wisdom/Understanding; Dare to Think for Yourself)
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  R.I.P ..Clarence Clemons

  by BluesBrother in

  1. social
  2. entertainment

  the passing of a big man and a fine musician...... .

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b0md__rpshg&feature=related.

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  I was sad to learn this.

  He and the band sure brought a lot of music and fun into my life.

  Mine, too.

  Seen him perform many times. He will be greatly missed.

  -Aude.
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  Undercover Brother Campaign- have you received your invite?

  by stuckinamovement in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  without specifics being mentioned as to what it is......(to avoid tipping off certain lurkers).. how many people know about the upcoming summer long campaign?

  please use this thread to confirm receipt of your campaign invitation.

  take care.

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  Can someone please send me a pm with details?

  Thanks!

  -Aude.
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  Hi, new to this forum. Figured I'd let everyone know about my story before I got involved.

  by JonathanH in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  if you just want the juicy details where i leave, i'll make disclaimer where it begins, if you just want to know what happened with the elders and organization after i realized it wasn't true, i'll mark that seperately.

  we didn't do jack shit in service, or in the congregation.

  maybe this was how jehovah came about?

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  I also missed this the first time (probably because I'm not paying much attention to anything X-JW lately).

  Marking for complete read later. The bit I read was good and I know it's captivating.

  Welcome to JWN. Looks like you've found yourself a vacation 'roosting nest'.

  -Aude Sapere (meaning: Dare to Know; Dare to Have Wisdom/Understanding; Dare to Think for Yourself)
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  Hello everyone

  by wasblind in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  ole was is still on the mend but feelin' better,.

  home pc is down, hope to be back on soon, take care.

  postin' from library.

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  AudeSapere

  I have not been here much at all so don't know everyone's current situations/status's/stories and did not know that you were not well.

  However, I *am* glad to know that you are getting better.

  Be well.

  -Aude.
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  Is this a bad thing?

  by sinis in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  been married for almost two decades now, and still luvs the woman!!

  anyways, her and her family had a trip planned to a theme park this weekend, out of state.

  i have known about it for a while and used work as an excuse not to go.

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  sinis wrote: I am taking some time off after she gets back and we will do some fun things around town or short day trips out of town. Will have some flowers and diner ready when she returns, probably will take her out.

  Let her tell you all about the fun she had. Or if that's too boring/frustrating for you, ask what were her top two favorite things that happened?

  I like that you are planning on a little something for when she gets back for just the two of you. You'll be refreshed from doing what you want and she will have had her own fun.

  Sounds like a good plan to me!

  -Aude.