I do believe that is the course of action I will take. "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." I'm probably just going to leave in a day or so when she's at work. I have hardly any possessions anyway, were in a good amount of debt, and both make the same amount of income. I have nothing to loose in a divorce I feel now. Thank GOD, no children...
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Caught Wife Cheating
by roflcopter inso i posted a while back about my marriage problems.... whole new gambit thrown into the mix.
i've had suspicions all along that something like this might be happening... but only just not confirmed that she's been cheating on me... with another jw that she works with!
she could have been more discreet about it rather than leave all the text messages on her phone.
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Caught Wife Cheating
by roflcopter inso i posted a while back about my marriage problems.... whole new gambit thrown into the mix.
i've had suspicions all along that something like this might be happening... but only just not confirmed that she's been cheating on me... with another jw that she works with!
she could have been more discreet about it rather than leave all the text messages on her phone.
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So I posted a while back about my marriage problems.... whole new gambit thrown into the mix. I've had suspicions all along that something like this might be happening... but only just not confirmed that she's been cheating on me... with another JW that she works with! She could have been more discreet about it rather than leave all the text messages on her phone. She cried her eyes out to me about how it was nothing, just a quick fling, and she wants to be with me and she is truly sorry... but I'm at a loss for words now :-/ I told her the only way this would work is if she quit and got another job, thus not being around this man anymore... She refused. I believe I have no choice but to leave now. I feel like 2.5 years of my life were just wasted. What boggles me is how she can talk about "the truth" and go to all her meetings and be so visciously defensive about "the organization" yet blatantly disobey the rules of said organization... /sad rant off Roflcopter.
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2nd degree sunburn help
by roflcopter inso i went fishing at the beach for about 9 hours last thursday.
silly me i forgot to bring sunscreen this time.
my arms didnt get burnt since i already burned once, but my legs are extremely burnt!.
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So i went fishing at the beach for about 9 hours last thursday. Silly me I forgot to bring sunscreen this time. My arms didnt get burnt since I already burned once, but my legs are extremely burnt!
They have swelled up alot, they are extremely painful. The actual burn doesnt hurt that much anymore, its more or less the swelling. I am practically bedridden since whenever I position my legs perpendicularly or stand and put weight on them, it feels as if all the blood vessels are about to explode, lots of pressure in my feet especially.
Any idea's? Or should I just lay in bed for the next weed ( and loose my job, stupid retailers! They are already talking about firing me... *sigh* not like I can help my condition )
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WHAT "WERE" YOU IN HIGH SCHOOL? AND DID YOU GO ON TO HIGHER EDUCATION?
by juni injust a fluffy question ~~~.
were you a freak?
jock?
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I was a part of the freak club. Lonley and rejected by most of the normal kids for being different. YaaY mee! I did go on to do a semester in community college, couldn't handle alot of the pressure of working a full time job, being a good little dub, and going to school at the same time so I dropped out. Now my life is sh*t cuz of it! I think back about it and realize I could have had my masters by now. :'( oh well foolish things.
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inactive a year
by changeling inthis month marks a year since i reported fs.
i can't remember the last time i felt this proud of an accomplishment.
i have come a long way in my de-programing.
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congrats! soon enough the time will just fly by if it hasn't already. For me it has been 4 years since i was DF'd, reinstated, faded and stopped turning in time ;D Lucky for me I was never hassled at all, and now that im outta state I should be home free!
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I am wowed
by roflcopter inmy ex fiance who is a hard-core dub.
who would never ever let me touch her in the "naughty spot" because she was so hardcore.
she used and abused me and when she was done after 2 years and after listening to the slander the elders told her about me (about how i would just hump and dump her, im not spiritual, etc.
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My ex fiance who is a hard-core dub. Who would never ever let me touch her in the "naughty spot" because she was so hardcore. She used and abused me and when she was done after 2 years and after listening to the slander the elders told her about me (about how I would just hump and dump her, im not spiritual, etc.)she left me.. Lol fast forward a couple more years... I know find out she just got knocked up out of wedlock with a brother she dated but can't stand!!! :D
I must say I was actually quite happy when I found out about this, mainly because it showed to me that holier than though attitude and all the accusations against me being this morally debased person who would bring her down was a load of crap.... I, unlike her, actually waited tell marriage to have sex.... (not that I care about premarital sex). But it more or less proved that it was all a load of crap.
Congratulations girl... now you'll experience real hardship! Muha.. oh... and I feel bad for the poor kid :( That girl is in no way ready to be a mommy. Now she'll be living at home taking care of a baby relying on her parents to support them. lol She probably wont get DF'd either... she's too popular. But I can only wish she does so then she can understand what it feels like. Since I was DFd and that broke the relationship basically.
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Illegal Collection Agency Practices.
by Blueblades insomeone just took an income tax check of $4,200 dollars out of one of my family's bank account.
it was not the irs.
some money was owed to someone and today we found out that that someone took out $4,200 from the account.
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I am very scared of this happening to me as well. I have a 4k check I have to deposit. But stupid wells fargo does not cash checks that large... I know I may have a judgment pending against me.. I don't want to deposit it and find out it gets taken... For me, it would essentially leave me on the street.
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Anyone interested in F*R*E*E advertising online?
by onlycurious ini am currently working on a website for work at home moms.
this is going to be fun and informative quality website where those who work at home can advertise their business in hopes of generating traffic to your sites.
i have a section for people to submit their favorite recipes.
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moms only =( How about an old hermit?
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A Depressed Update In Life.
by roflcopter inmy life's been slowly going in the crapper lately.
i am growing more and more hateful of this stupid cult, as well as deeply depressed and borderline suicidal.
my mother in law has for a long time been emailing a brother who i had a falling out with.
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Thank you everyone. It feels better for me to talk about it and vent. It's too hard for me to bottle things up, it just hurts more.
I can't believe i am now the evil apostate. =( I told my wife many times I didn't want to talk about spirituality with her because I was afraid of this. She knew my stand stand for the "truth(puke)"..
Some may not believe me. but it is true her family is VERY hardcore dubs. I know the guilt trip they have been playing on her these past 2 years. I know about the hateful emails about me, how I'm such a horrible guy for leaving the "loving spirit directed organization." God, just reading those words makes me want to puke.
I refuse to put my blinders on and step foot in a kingdom hall. I am not one to be led around blindly. I can see things for what they are. I was NEVER a "good witness" so to speak. I think she talked to the elders and they might have also told her she has spiritual grounds for separation.
All i know is, I predicted this. I had a very bad feeling about letting her visit her mother. We left with big smiles a warm hug and kiss. Now I am a lowlife worldly man who has rejected the almighty. =/ -
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BEER THREAD
by nvrgnbk ini believe the moment's right to discuss a very serious matter............................................................beer.
what do you like?
let's edumicate one another!
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