Thanks CYP
I'll think on what you said and the part about screwing up our kids lives, that hit home as well!!
Poodles
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UBMs - why do we love JWs??
by Super_Becka ini think there's been a thread on this before, but i figured i'd ask again.. for all of the ubms out there, why is it that we love witnesses??
what is it about them that we find so attractive??
why are we putting ourselves through this mess when we know full-well that there are lots of non-jws out there who would be better for us??.
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I'm a newbie!!
by Poodles inthis is my first time in this forum!
i joined because i would like to understand the witness way of life w/o joining!!
all debates welcome!!
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Hi finally_free
I would like to hear the "puddles" story, that is if you don't mind!
Poodles
Hi jgnat
How are you doing these days? Good to hear from you! Girl, you hit the nail on the head with that one!! I have met his exwife, all three of his daughters (they are adults) and his mother so far and he introduced me as "his neighbor"!! I felt like spitting i was so mad at him!! His family do not deserve to be hurt and i've tried to keep them out of our affair but two Decembers ago i told his exwife about us while we were broke up those two weeks! I think she suspected it all along but kept it to herself!! Who would know him better than an exwife who was married to him for 24 years?? I have never seen him so mad but he managed to get past his anger and ask me to come back to him!! If i speak of him too much just put me in my place and i will back off, ok!!
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my mom and my sister came to visit....
by theinfamousone innow in case you're wondering why this is such a big deal and why the tears are streaming down my face right now, feel free to look at my story as i like to call it.... http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/7/101870/1758191/post.ashx#1758191.
so i think it was thursday i decided to make a huge pot of my little sisters favorite soup for her... when i went to drop it off at their house, well, they werent home, so i left it there with a note just saying hi to her and my mom, and that i miss them and love them... which is probably a shot at my dad who, well you know what i think of him.... i was quite perturbed because i did not receive a phone call or anything to acknowledge that they had received it... so i was a little worried that my father had found it and ripped up my note and thown the soup away... i know it sounds stupid, but i made the soup for my sister, and i mean, i guess it was just to show her how much she means to me... i guess i could have bought her some kind of present, but i dunno, making something seemed right at the time..... so anyways, finally today i get home from school and find a note under my door... they had both come to visit and they left me a note... well my mom wrote a quick note saying they had visited and were sorry they missed me and thanks so much for the soup and for bringing it to them and showing that i do miss them.... she wishes she had been able to see me... my sister wrote me a letter, and left it under my door as well... she wrote on the enveloppe she wanted to give it to me, but was sad she couldnt see me... she says shell call.... this wouldnt be such a big deal, but its the first contact ive had with her in three months or so... i mean, ive called and left messages, but i dont know if any of them even get to her... this little girl means the world to me... and i havent been able to see her in months.... it isnt fair.... so here i am sitting by the phone, thinking of calling in sick to work, just so i can speak to her, i dont want to miss her call... .
i feel so alone right now, and i just dont know.... im pathetic i know, but i miss her so much..... the infamous one
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Hi theinfamousone
Hey sweetie, hang in there, you are loved by many of us, you will always be in my thoughts and prayers!!
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I'm a newbie!!
by Poodles inthis is my first time in this forum!
i joined because i would like to understand the witness way of life w/o joining!!
all debates welcome!!
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Thank you one and all!! I feel very welcome here already!! I will do just as you say and take what you say to heart!! I wish i could meet you all but since i can not i will be happy just to chat with you here instead!! My honey (i don't know if we are allowed to say names) an i are still together but not as much as it was in the beginning because i am the type of person who can only take just so much and i start to "back off"!! I have been slowly trying to end the relationship, it's been three months since we have been together" if you know what i mean"!! He keeps trying to entice me to be with him because he knows how i feel about him!! I just need the emotional strength to resist him!! I'm hoping that my chats with all you very nice and understanding ladies and gentlemen will help somewhat!! Here's hoping to have many more chats with you all!!
Poodles
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UBMs - why do we love JWs??
by Super_Becka ini think there's been a thread on this before, but i figured i'd ask again.. for all of the ubms out there, why is it that we love witnesses??
what is it about them that we find so attractive??
why are we putting ourselves through this mess when we know full-well that there are lots of non-jws out there who would be better for us??.
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I'm sure the fact that my boyfriend is a JW has nothing to do with my being in love with him!! I feel something for him i have never felt in my whole life! It's like i can't get enough of him!! Like he's in my blood!!
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I'm a newbie!!
by Poodles inthis is my first time in this forum!
i joined because i would like to understand the witness way of life w/o joining!!
all debates welcome!!
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Hi kids
Thank you for all your kind words! I promise not to join, i just want to understand the mind set of a Witness!! For a while he had me thinking i was the one who was in the wrong!! That was in the first two years of our relationship! I have read some of the links you guys posted and they made me understand just what the heck is wrong with him! I pity him and will keep him in my prayers! He lives right across the street from me, i can not move w/o giving up my job as an apartment manager of two buildings next to each other! He lives in and owns his duplex! He is one cruel mother, emotionaly that is!!
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im in love with a Jehovah's Witness
by saddler ini've fallen in love with a jehovah's witness and i know she feels the same way about me but the problem is that im a methodist and cant find it in me to give up my faith and become a jehovah's witness as i would not expect her to give up her faith and it is driving us both crazy.
i've known this lovely lady for the past 8 years and have only now told her how i feel and every second im away from her im thinking of her wanting to be with her.
so im asking people who might know or be able to help
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Poodles
Good morning Dr Jeky
Yes! I figured that out the first six months into the relationship!! What does one do when the heart controls the brain?? You would think at 60 i would know better but i've never been in love before!
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I'm a newbie!!
by Poodles inthis is my first time in this forum!
i joined because i would like to understand the witness way of life w/o joining!!
all debates welcome!!
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Thanks IronClaw
What you doing up so late?? I'm having trouble sleeping myself!
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I'm a newbie!!
by Poodles inthis is my first time in this forum!
i joined because i would like to understand the witness way of life w/o joining!!
all debates welcome!!
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Poodles
OMG, i just figured out that the last part of my post is in relation to another post, so sorry!! Please forgive me!!
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I'm a newbie!!
by Poodles inthis is my first time in this forum!
i joined because i would like to understand the witness way of life w/o joining!!
all debates welcome!!
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Thank you very much for the big up! I hope you can help me with your good advice! As you can see he is only in this relationship for the sex and i for love! It sounds like i hooked up with some very nice people in this forum!