Easyrider : looks like we share the same wife !!
When I start recovering myself mental sanity (2 years ago) I argue a lot with my wife. I made every point concerning me very clear , but I cannot stop going to the meeting. She was more furius with me not going to the meeting than with me expressing my frankly thought on "the truth" and the SFD ! And I wasn't soft.
I first stop going to the Revelation Climax disgusting study. I demostrate her the insanity and incoerence in that book. She was hungry, but recognize my reasons.
Then , I stop going out in service. No way to present people a message like The Truth , when it's at list instable and variable.
After that, I stop going to field service meeting. No reason doing this meeting if not going out in service.
So , the last was the sunday meeting. Very hard to stop going in the hall , at list once a week ..("so , you don't care anymore the brothers ? They want to see you ? They love you , bla bla..") Really , I care most of the brothers , but going in the hall we are not doing a party with nice people, we go there to be indoctrinated. As I said this was hard.
I had a very nice help from CO and PO visiting me in my house.
After long discussion on many subject, the CO told me I had to stop talking to "others".
I ask him if I have to stop also talking to my wife (I was provoking him)
He said , seriuosly, yes you should pay attention talking to you wife. She could be upset from your conversations.
Ok brother, thank you for your suggestion and go away. This was last visit I received from elders and company (I'm still associated)
Then I talk to my wife, and I state I was really sad for what the CO told me, in my house. From now on I'm not goign the meeting anymore. I'm not supporting at all an organization where there's not freedom of talk and thougth.
Never going back to the meeting in the last 8 months , apart the memorial, but it took over one year to get rid of.
So , I would not say stop in one week. But start to stop. You're (as I was) wasting a lot of time.