This thread sure brought up a lot of memories . . and not good ones.
My dad was never and elder, closest he came was a MS. My mom would go through my school books, my purse, my mail . .anything she could get her hands on. The thing is that I was a "perfect" JW growing up. It wasn't until I married at 19 and realized what a mistake I made that I became "bad" in their eyes.
My dad would fall asleep drunk everynight but they were worried if I was passing notes in school to worldy boys!