I understand where you are coming from, I myself am dissfelowshipped for going outside the marriage. But my case was diffrent, my exwife and I had arranged to see other people, so actually i wasnt cheating on her. she knew who I was seeing and knew that a divorce was eminent. The elders talked to me and I said I didnt want to be with her anymore, the asked why, so I explained we got married too young and changed. They treated her with the upmost royalty, becasue they didnt know she was seeing someone else too. I wasnt about to tell on her, it was my problem someone saw me with my now wife. In our case, you have to REPENT from what you have done. Meaning going to the meetings. Prefferably all of THEM. If you cant make one call the appointed elder. This has to be something you REALLY want to do. I let the congregation get to me, and said they were only out to get me. I dont know if I was right or not. But I moved away to a diffrent congrgation to start new. Thats something if you want to consider doing. Go where no one knows you. And about the ones who are inside and doing bad things? My wife and I are what you call SWINGERS, and found 2 couples that are JW's at a swinger convention. But like all things bad things happen to good people, the bad meaning getting caught or getting punished. The good Jehovah sees your potential and still wants you. I admit He is forgiving even if we are not.-
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When Will I Not Be Considered Disfellowshipped Among the Congregation?
by kwheeler inhere is a little background about myself.
my mother raised me and my siblings in the jw faith.
however, my father was not a witness and opposed a lot of the beliefs so you can imagine how our life was.
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If Jehovah does not demand human sacrifice.......?
by Gill inif jehovah does not demand human sacrifice, then why does he demand that jws die instead of taking blood transfusions?
isn't that human sacrifice?
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cuetec06
It has to do with intruducing a foregn or malicious thing into the body. Not human sacrifice. I had asked the same question and a Catholic no doubt, told me it was the right idea. Thats why you dont eat blood. Hope this helped.