Why doesn't this girl use birth control, have her tubes tied, or get abortions?
I feel for you, because you are convenient, and are being used. She feels free to do whatever she wants, because you are there to serve her needs. When you keep the children, where is she? Out making more?
Yes, I agree with the other poster...you are enabling her. If you are in the U.S., then I, as a taxpayer, am also helping to support her and her lifestyle, and am not happy about it.
If this girl had to sit at home and actually care for all the children, she couldn't be out giving herself to every man that comes along.
These poor children.....what kind of mother do they have.......not one to be proud of, that's for sure.
I hope that you will tell her that these children are HER responsibility and that you will not care for them at your house without her being present, also. If it's HER body, then her body had better get into gear and be a parent and start caring for them.
Perhaps you could demonstrate how to bathe them, read to them, etc. when she does come over. Make her go shopping with you if you buy the kids something.
And yes, by all means, never hand her cash!