Dear Snoozy,
I was a mother's dream daughter along with my husband who is not a JW, helping her where no one else could, or would. She told me that I was her absolute best friend for the past 20 years. I am the executive of her trust, and stood by her side helping for 4 months as my father laid dieing of bone cancer.
We have always had so much fun together shopping, decorating our homes, getting each others opinion on the same and always supporting each other.
I encouraged her (always) when she was pioneering, also to buy a certain home so that she could be closer to the KH and have the bookstudy in her house.
I helped her with landscaping, and sending MAJOR money to the society etc.
A little over a month ago, some Circuit Overseer recommended to her that she shun me.
I have not heard from her since but was delivered a 3 page type written letter thanking me for all I had done but she must now disown me because I have been gone 30 years and still smoke.
I really am quite upset at your question. I don't think you know what your asking.
I would post the letter sent to me by my mother but it would give too much away.
r.