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  Hello!

  by digderidoo in

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  just having a browse ... wow 11 years ago i joined this site.

  in previous years i had a number of ex jw issues and this site really helped both for support and to vent my anger.. hello to anyone who remembers me, though there looks many new ones now..

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  digderidoo

  Thank you Scarred for Life and hello to you :)
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  Hello!

  by digderidoo in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  just having a browse ... wow 11 years ago i joined this site.

  in previous years i had a number of ex jw issues and this site really helped both for support and to vent my anger.. hello to anyone who remembers me, though there looks many new ones now..

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  digderidoo

  Hi wha happened, great to see another aa'er, especially an ex jw one.
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  The gal I'm dating frequents match.com - advice?

  by UnConfused in

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  i am dating a gal that i met on match.com - we saw each other first last summer, but she didn't think we were a 'match'.

  after the "pressure" was off we started hanging out quite a bit with all the benefits that go along with it.

  this went on for months.. i became smitten with her, but we weren't a couple, which she pointed out a couple of times.

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  digderidoo

  There are a number of reasons why she could be going on match.com

  First of all, you are going on it too. You stated you have a profile, she may be checking to see if you're going on it in the same way as you're checking to see if she goes on it.

  Why have you not deleted your profile?

  I think the important issue is whether she's subscribed to it. If she still has a profile and not subscribed then maybe she goes on it when she gets a notification via email, this then registers her checking into the site and you're busy nosying around to notice how often she's clicking on it.

  I had a similar experience in that I met my last girlfriend through internet dating, but still had some old profiles from a couple of years beforehand on other sites. I should have removed them, but didn't as some of these sites were difficult to remove yourself from, I also had others that took my profile and transfered it to another site without my initial knowledge. Really i should have spent an evening going through them and removing them, but as i had no interest in meeting anyone else I just left them.

  Occasionally however I'd get a junk email notification, i'd click on it which would then register my clicking on the site with the date, etc. Sometimes i'd try to navigate to delete myself. Unknown to me my girlfriend through her own insecurities spent an evening searching for me on different sites adn you guessed it, she came across these old profiles, saw that i'd clicked on them after we'd met put 2 and 2 together and came up with 5. She never told me about what she'd found, but allowed it to build up over a few weeks, began not to trust me and started checking things. She'd found an empty box of condoms, that we'd used a couple of months previous, accused me of cheating and finished with me.

  I can honestly say that I never so much as looked at another woman whilst with her, but she let her imagination get carried away without talking to me. Things have come to light since that she had in fact herself cheated on me, but that's another story. The instigator and start of all this was her looking for me on internet dating sites.

  You really need to talk to her, not us on a forum platform...but HER. She maybe cheating, who knows? But right now all you've got is titbits of info and your imagination. If you want to make a go of things with her, you both need to come off match.com
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  Hello!

  by digderidoo in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  just having a browse ... wow 11 years ago i joined this site.

  in previous years i had a number of ex jw issues and this site really helped both for support and to vent my anger.. hello to anyone who remembers me, though there looks many new ones now..

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  digderidoo

  Phizzy, many who drink to excess give up alcohol just to prove that they can, the thing to look out for is not the fact that you can give up, but when starting again do you end up back to square one within a few short weeks, i know I would.

  As for the Human Rights Act (HRA) to be used against the Watchtower, it never could. Whatever the issue is against the watchtower, would always be balanced against Article 9 of the ECHR (which the HRA implements), 'freedom of thought, conscience and religion'. So the HRA actually supports the Watchtower, rather be against it. The society has used Article 9 in the European Court of Human Rights many times against Russia.
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  Hello!

  by digderidoo in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  just having a browse ... wow 11 years ago i joined this site.

  in previous years i had a number of ex jw issues and this site really helped both for support and to vent my anger.. hello to anyone who remembers me, though there looks many new ones now..

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  digderidoo

  Hi Phizzy, yeah you're right about the alcohol, not so much about the bible believer bit though lol

  I went to my first AA meeting in January 2008 and moved forward. I went nearly 2 years without a drink and then drank at a birthday party thinking i'd be alright, I clearly wasn't as i was drinking on my own again a week later, that was my last drink ... 28th April 2010

  I'm 2/3 way through a law degree now and done some teaching along with human rights work and i put it all down to giving up drinking.

  I do read the bible from time to time, but wouldn't say i'm a believer, well only as much as i think it's a great piece of literature some of which is historically true and some of which is myth, much along the same lines as other religious writings.

  But yes all is good. I've definitely moved on from my JW past, the angers gone. At the same time I accept the JW past that's inside me has partly made me who I am today.
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  Hello!

  by digderidoo in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  just having a browse ... wow 11 years ago i joined this site.

  in previous years i had a number of ex jw issues and this site really helped both for support and to vent my anger.. hello to anyone who remembers me, though there looks many new ones now..

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  digderidoo

  Just having a browse ... wow 11 years ago I joined this site. In previous years I had a number of ex JW issues and this site really helped both for support and to vent my anger.

  Hello to anyone who remembers me, though there looks many new ones now.
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  Learning Biblical Hebrew?

  by digderidoo in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  hi all,.

  i've been thinking about attempting to learn biblical hebrew through the summer and wondered if any of you scholars out there have a site or resource to recommend?.

  paul.

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  digderidoo

  Hi all,

  I've been thinking about attempting to learn biblical Hebrew through the summer and wondered if any of you scholars out there have a site or resource to recommend?

  Paul
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  What's the biggest lie/rumor that has ever been told about YOU?

  by VampireDCLXV in

  1. jw
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  most of us here know what a hypocritical, backstabbing bunch of gossips many of the jw's tend to be.

  far too often, a jw wont tell you to your face what's eating them, but they'll sure tell others.

  when i started waking up (the second time around) this made me very paranoid.

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  digderidoo

  About 10 years ago this girl was all over me in a nightclub...unknown to me a couple of my ex jw mates had told her that i was well blessed...when we got back to hers, she was ever so disappointed...
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  Do You Blame Your Current Life's Issues Because You Were A JW?

  by minimus in

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  do you tend to blame your problems on the fact that you were a jehovah's witness?.

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  digderidoo

  I used to, but then who's to say that i wouldn't have had problems if my life had gone in another direction.

  I remember discussing the fact i didn't take higher education due to being a JW with another recovered alcoholic. This guy is a very intelligent guy, went to grammar school as a kid, very studious, never went to higher education himself and now works as a tiler. He said he could relate to me not going to university because he didn't go as he thought the world was going to be destroyed by a nuclear bomb, so why bother. In his teens the nuclear arms race was at it's strongest, so he never bothered going to uni, thinking it would be a waste of time.

  It really got me thinking, that there could always have been other reasons for my life not going in the direction that i wanted.

  What matters now is the here and now, and where i want to be in the future. It's futile looking back, even non-ex jw's have made mistakes, we all do, at some point we all wish our life was better.

  Speaking personally, i had to accept that what has happened in the past has already happened, there's no point dwelling on it, no point wondering what if, no point wondering why....just accept that it's happened and look forward.
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  Please do the following equation

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  digderidoo

  what if i told you that the same calculator could give you two different answers depending on what symbol you used for the division. It should make no difference.

  would every one agree that the following are equal 1/2 and 1÷2

  yet copy and paste the following equations into the calculator i am giving you a link to

  6÷2(1+2)=x

  6/2(1+2)=x

  Google gives the answer as 9 for both.