I love to cook, some things I'm better at than others but my faves are:
1. Steaks
2. Chili
3. Wings
4. Anything that can be grilled.
j
I love to cook, some things I'm better at than others but my faves are:
1. Steaks
2. Chili
3. Wings
4. Anything that can be grilled.
j
alltimejeff got me thinking about this.
he was very ambitious as a young jw, .
things changed as he wised up.
The whole thing is set up as a competition!
Yes. That NEVER sat well with me.
j
it is a fallacy that the early christians weaved the tale of a dying and rising god-man on the loom of mystery religions.
the idea of the dying-rising god as a parallel to the christian concept of the death and resurrection of christ was popularized by james frazer in the golden bough, first published in 1906. scholar edwin yamauchi (1974; easter: myth, hallucination, or history?
) has observed that, although frazer marshaled many parallels, the foundation was very fragile and has been discredited by a host of scholars since frazers ideas were at the height of their popularity in the 1960s.
The terrorists who flew airliners into the World Trade Center were willing to suffer a truly sadistic death (as well as extinguishing the lives of many innocents) because of their religious belief, conviction and attitude of utter certainty.
True. However, although I'm largely agnostic, (in other words I don't "know" anything from a religious standpoint for sure"), I sense, for most Christians, it's not about absolute certainty. That's fundamentalism, (which some are, such as jws), but not the majority. Christianity is mostly based on faith, not certainty, and it certainly can't be proven on purely a rational basis. It also cannot be UN-proven on purely a rational basis.
j
i have been left for about 18 months now and am trying to get 'unindoctrinated' or 'unbrainwashed' or whatever is the correct term is.
but there still exists in me a considerable fear of 'armaggeddon'.
whether the jw teaching of 'armaggeddon' is true or not i am not sure, but such was their very powerful strong mental indoctrination of this event it has left me with what i think will be a permenant fear for the rest of my days.
I must say Grissom, your love just shines through in your comments.
j
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compared with the six million jehovahs witnesses worldwide the .
so-called apostates are comparatively much smaller.
I believe that in many cases those of us who manage to escape are the ones who have another of these challenging episodes that forces their hand and makes them re-evaluate. In other words shocked in and shocked out
Precisely. That's what finally did it, for me. However, long before that, experience with people and situations outside of the borg taught me that things were not exactly what the borg taught me they were. So doubts existed before anything monumental took place. It just took a good jolt for me to be brave enough to face them.
j
my story is sub-titled so you can skip ahead to parts that interest you most.. by way of reminder, my posting on "faith in god and the church" is not meant to convert anyone, because i have been out of the preaching business now for 14-years.
i am sharing my views given the questions i get when i do post about belief in god or my association with the catholic church.. why the catholic church?
protestants, especially fundamentalists and evangelicals have a hard spot with the roman catholic church.
Interesting journey, Jim. Still working on mine.
j
when i'm discussing problems i have with the wts with my family they often say well they make mistakes just like the early christians did, they are not perfect.. i try to argue that if you think that way you can go to any christian church and say the same.
but usually they say that compared to other religions the wts makes less mistakes so you should go there.. i know that such reasoning doesn't make sense to me but what is a good response to this?.
Sooner or later every JW experiences an injustice so deep from the the org.or made possible by the org. that they will question whether it is indded God's Organization. THAT"S the moment to take advantage.
True, that is usually the enabler. However, I know of individuals who became inactive over such things, never did any research on the org, and are now back in full swing. It is much harder to convince these folks. They already learned how to live with their cognitive dissonance.
j
prior to you leaving the org did you come to the conclusion that if you didnt actually take the step and leave, that you would run into serious mental difficulty.. i really feel that for 5 years proir to my finally leaving i was quite impaired mentally by the teachings and practices of the org.
it was coming to a head though when i finally announced that i was leaving.
i really felt that i was under intense mental pressure and that if i didnt get out then i may end up doing something serious.
Yes. I was actually there before I left, I went into passive observer mode before completely leaving.
j
i consider brooke my friend - but two weeks from now i will be rooting against your bears, babe!!!.
what a finish for the colts - bout time.
i have been waiting for them to get to the "show" since they moved to indiana.. go colts!
Even though they beat my beloved Chiefs, I'm rooting for Manning this year. It's his turn.
j
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the organization was when individuals made it their business to become.
involved in your personal affairs.. turning away from the organizationthere were three or four incidents with circuit overseers and .
There are too many to list, probably, but here are a few:
1. I have a job that requires considerable travel, (you can guess how this goes over with the BOE, and others). I've been told to quit my job, and find alternative employment many times. (usually by office cleaners, window washers, etc).
2. "Brother we know how dedicated you are, but you must be more VISABLE in the fs if we are going to appoint you" That's what they said to my face, I heard terms like "floundering" through the grapevine.
3. "Brother, how regular is your family bible study?" (As if that could fix my relationship with my brain dead ex-wife)
j