FMF: I was also told by someone I have been so close to for 35 years "I am not shunning you, I just won't do anything with you socially, I wont follow you on social media, etc, but I AM NOT SHUNNING YOU, we just wont do anything together again"...
JW's lie to everyone, including themselves. They are completely dishonest about who they are and what they believe, even to themselves.
Just one minor point of clarification. They lie to themselves first, which is precisely why they can lie to everyone else and not even know it.
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