I have seen it referred to on the board that there is yet another change to the generation teaching.......doe anyone have the notes on this?
JapanBoy
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any further news on the 'annual meeting'
by JapanBoy ini have seen it referred to on the board that there is yet another change to the generation teaching.......doe anyone have the notes on this?
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The journey begins.
by Stealth453 inat 10pm, i leave home for canada.
it's a 3 day trip.. wish me luck, and i will see you all once i arrive in the frozen north..
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JapanBoy
Where are you heading in Canada?
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THINKING OF FAKING IT GOING FOR REINSTATEMENT
by JapanBoy inborn and raised in the borg.. i haven't posted for some time.
i got divorced from my jw wife, of 25 years, after living with another woman for almost 1.5 years [knew her for 3 years] .
the divorce that was my doing was last dec. 06. the divorce went through but all the financial settlements have yet to be agreed on.
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Steve2
Maybe that's just a chance I'll have to take to get my family back. I really don't care about anything else but the 3 of them right now.
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THINKING OF FAKING IT GOING FOR REINSTATEMENT
by JapanBoy inborn and raised in the borg.. i haven't posted for some time.
i got divorced from my jw wife, of 25 years, after living with another woman for almost 1.5 years [knew her for 3 years] .
the divorce that was my doing was last dec. 06. the divorce went through but all the financial settlements have yet to be agreed on.
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JapanBoy
Yes Terry I agree with what you say but what about just getting reinstated and then fading?
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THINKING OF FAKING IT GOING FOR REINSTATEMENT
by JapanBoy inborn and raised in the borg.. i haven't posted for some time.
i got divorced from my jw wife, of 25 years, after living with another woman for almost 1.5 years [knew her for 3 years] .
the divorce that was my doing was last dec. 06. the divorce went through but all the financial settlements have yet to be agreed on.
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JapanBoy
Thanks for all of the advice. Yes I did f-up my life and screwed over my family........all for nothing in the end. I did try going back to my ex-wife about 1.5 years ago and it didn't work then. at that time I was not going to go back to being a JW. It was kind of like a ghetto life for my ex-wife and kids never being able to have any of our JW friends over to the house because I was there, or I'd have to run upstairs and hide if someone JW dropped by etc....
For the record my ex-wife and kids are reasonably strong in their beliefs but not gungho over the top type of JW's. We were never the types to search out K-Halls when we went on Holidays/vacations. I just do not see any other way to go if I want to have a relationship with my son, daughter and ex again.
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THINKING OF FAKING IT GOING FOR REINSTATEMENT
by JapanBoy inborn and raised in the borg.. i haven't posted for some time.
i got divorced from my jw wife, of 25 years, after living with another woman for almost 1.5 years [knew her for 3 years] .
the divorce that was my doing was last dec. 06. the divorce went through but all the financial settlements have yet to be agreed on.
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JapanBoy
Thanks Froggy! In answer to your question I think it is a combination of all the things you mentioned, security, love, kids, stability.......when you are married to someone for so long it is hard.
JB
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THINKING OF FAKING IT GOING FOR REINSTATEMENT
by JapanBoy inborn and raised in the borg.. i haven't posted for some time.
i got divorced from my jw wife, of 25 years, after living with another woman for almost 1.5 years [knew her for 3 years] .
the divorce that was my doing was last dec. 06. the divorce went through but all the financial settlements have yet to be agreed on.
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JapanBoy
You seem reasonably sure your wife would take you back. You treated her very badly. The least you could do for her is give up the smoking. You seem to have realised the value of family. Would I go back in order to keep mine together? I think maybe I would. I have been married for thirty six years. To have someone to love and love you is a gift not to be taken lightly. Quandry: I do think she would take me back......there is a lot more to the story than I have posted. I have treated her thoughtlessly and very badly. I should give up the smoking....tough though it is for me. I need my family in the worst way and really have no way of seeing them otherwise. What is your background.....is you wife in or out...I agree to have someone love you is something that is precious. I just really need my family and miss them terribly........I am lost without them. JB
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THINKING OF FAKING IT GOING FOR REINSTATEMENT
by JapanBoy inborn and raised in the borg.. i haven't posted for some time.
i got divorced from my jw wife, of 25 years, after living with another woman for almost 1.5 years [knew her for 3 years] .
the divorce that was my doing was last dec. 06. the divorce went through but all the financial settlements have yet to be agreed on.
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JapanBoy
Mary I re-read Gumby's experiences in detail. Do you know how long it took him to get reinstated? I too was fairly popular in the cong as Gumby-man was.....by his posts.
I really need some thoughtful advice on my life right now. I fear not hearing about my parents until one of them has died or not being invited to give my daughter away at her wedding etc.....it's really quite depressing. I can't believe this stuff anymore it's just a problem that my whole family is tied up in this thing and I have only a few close friends [who I will always keep] outside the borg.
Thanks to all.....the incites of JWD have been a great help to me!
JB
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THINKING OF FAKING IT GOING FOR REINSTATEMENT
by JapanBoy inborn and raised in the borg.. i haven't posted for some time.
i got divorced from my jw wife, of 25 years, after living with another woman for almost 1.5 years [knew her for 3 years] .
the divorce that was my doing was last dec. 06. the divorce went through but all the financial settlements have yet to be agreed on.
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JapanBoy
yes it's mao.....don't know why I used it....just like Any Warhol art I guess.
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THINKING OF FAKING IT GOING FOR REINSTATEMENT
by JapanBoy inborn and raised in the borg.. i haven't posted for some time.
i got divorced from my jw wife, of 25 years, after living with another woman for almost 1.5 years [knew her for 3 years] .
the divorce that was my doing was last dec. 06. the divorce went through but all the financial settlements have yet to be agreed on.
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JapanBoy
Thanks Mary I read throught the Gumby threads..........I didn't see anything about Gumby's situation though just comments that he was going back... Like him more than 95% of my family is in the org. I just am afraid that I won't be able to do it.
JB